I think we all have to take a step back and recognise that we are sitting in comfortable Western European / US / wherever not-on-the-front-line homes and that we are all, more or less, picking a narrative and a set of telegram channels to follow. The truth is very likely somewhere in between these entrenched positions.
I really don't understand people who are buying Russia's propaganda from that position. I am not speaking about anyone on this thread, more a thirty year friendship of mine that has ended because the individual in question simply parrots Russian propaganda from all points east of The Grey Zone. It is something I am terribly sad about, but there we have it.
There are unpleasant people on both sides and active fascists on both sides. No one is claiming Ukraine was a perfect democracy before the war and no one serious claims that the Ukrainian military is free of active fascists. Unfortunately there are active fascist lunatics on both sides.
That said, I start and end with the position that Ukraine was a sovereign country subject to an unprovoked attack by it's neighbour on the basis of Putin's deranged ramblings deriving from the period of coronavirus isolation and his imperialist / revanchist friends who don't want to re-create the Soviet Union (Putin and his circle hate that now and regard Marxism-Leninism as an ideology that betrayed and sold out Russia and let to its international humilation in the 1990s) but the pre-1917 Russian empire. Putin's statement /tractatus on Ukraine from 2021, On the Historical Unity of Ukraine and Russia is ahistorical, skelly-eyed nonsense. As a result, I have supported Ukraine throughout this conflict and will continue to do so.
This is a difficult position to take for a lifelong Russophile, someone who loves Russian history, literature, art and society. But it's 2024 and everything is in a terrible mess. Yes, it is not comfortable to be sitting in the same tent as NATO, the British political mainstream. But it is all in. There is no appeasing this regime and there is no negotiating with it, as they interpret calls to negotiation or compromise as a sign of weakness and it will- like it or not- encourage future attacks by re-worked, re-armed and re-staffed Russian forces who will attack Poland and the Baltics based on lessons learned from the terrible costs they have paid in trying and failing to subdue Ukraine.
Ukraine is- without doubt- in a difficult position at the moment, largely because of the vacillation by its backers in the West. Those in or near the front lines are embittered at the waning of western resolve. Civilians are dying in large numbers on a daily basis through indiscrimate Russian attacks on civlian targets. Russia's occupation of Enerhodar sees them hold a nuclear blackmail over the whole European continent.
Sadly it seems Ukraine's future is being decided not in Kyiv or in the battlefields in the East but in the American senate. The mood seems to be swinging toward releasing the funding stranglehold. Should funding be blocked again it is predicted that Ukraine will be done by the end of this year. Which means a wider European war in 2025/26 as Russia will re-group and then go after Moldova, Poland & the Baltics. The same will happen if some crap "peace deal" is agreed which signs over the territory Russia took by force to Russia. It will just buy a few years until they come back for the rest of Ukraine and what they can grab westwards.
It's been decided in Russia that this is an all-out, existential conflict between Russia and the West. We might shake our heads at the tragic delusion in that statement, but those who support Ukraine have to respond in kind and with the same resolve. It is precisley the failure to arm and equip Ukraine properly that is leading to incremental Russian gains on the battlefield currently. The next few months will be pivotal for the outcome of the war.
For those who take a view similar to Russia's, on the basis that the Ukrainian working class is being bled to death on the battlefield whilst what's left of "the West" makes its mind up whether it wants to defend itself or not, well, I understand. I can see how that point can be made. What I can't tolerate is gleeful parroting of Russian propaganda as a wind-up, or cheering on from the sidelines as though it's a football match.
I never thought I'd live in a time where it was so difficult to see a route back to a generally peaceful world. But, revanchist nationalism, climate emergency and energy transition mean it is going to be messy as fuck for the foreseaable future. The chances of the world making it out of this period without a major / nuclear conflict or accelerating numbers of deaths through climate instability are dismayingly narrow.
Long-winded but my honest take on this. Maybe it's naive to try and cling onto some international rules based order when it is so clearly failing. But I cannot see any other way.