It's brilliant. But I could only get about a third of the way through it because the rage it induced was just too much.Harking back to the subject of medical misogyny, I have another book recommendation which goes into this in some detail (with stats etc)
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I get that. I was like that with Everyday Sexism. Had to keep putting it down and reading something else for a while.It's brilliant. But I could only get about a third of the way through it because the rage it induced was just too much.
Similar situation over forty years ago. I could hold a lot of drink at the time, but continuous tumblers of gin and tonic with decreasing proportions of tonic left me making a complete ass of myself and barely able to stand when I left. I was lucky to get home with only minor injuries (I woke to find my head glued to the pillow with my own blood).Such a nasty thing to do.
My uncle is 60 and works in an estate agent. The rest of the office are all typical young estate agents- you know, pricks.
He is often the butt of their jokes. He's very mild mannered. Eg sending offensive emails to people when he was away from his computer.
At their last Christmas do before lockdown they spiked his beers with vodka, and he barely drinks from one month to the next.
He got horribly pissed and ended up saying stupid things and generally making a disgrace of himself.
Makes me sad to think of that incident
Snowball, used for cocktail and not frozen projectilegypsies kiss, piss. That’s all. Jimmy riddle. A BarnesAndNoble. Okay I don’t know what that is. I just made it up.
An 18-year old man from Brighton is being held by police on suspicion of administering poison with intent to injure.
A 28-year-old man from Hove and 19-year-old Brighton man have been bailed on suspicion of the same offence.
But of course it’s just silly women not holding their drink, and blaming an invented bad guy the next morning.
And other silly women getting sucked into a moral panic.
You don’t need to read back very far on this thread to see the energy being put into the “regretful women telling lies” explanation.I don’t believe that. Why would anyone make this stuff up? Most people go about their lives and report back on stuff. I believe the reports.
You don’t need to read back very far on this thread to see the energy being put into the “regretful women telling lies” explanation.
Which of course is a close relation to the mythology of common false accusations of rape and sexual assault.
It probably wont seem real to some people until the substances involved are named. But its not hard to imagine some reticence towards publicising that info at this stage, on the occasions where it does become available to the authorities.The wtf element makes it easy to unreasonably dismiss. As does the lack of plausible agents. That said, lots of incidents reported doesn’t mean it is being done “successfully”. It’s still sickening. Also hard to tell how many copycat attempts are happening - I’m not sure what to do with that. I’m sure the police will have analysts tracking certain channels where this shit is likely to be discussed.
It probably wont seem real to some people until the substances involved are named. But its not hard to imagine soem reticence towards publicising that info at this stage, on the occasions where it does become available to the authorities.
She did not 'get' raped and murdered, like it was something she did that caused it. She was raped and murdered by someone who took advantage of her being a lone woman.I think it’s horrific. The evidence of how women have to conduct their lives simply to stay safe is diabolical. Everard followed the ‘rules’ and still got raped and murdered.
I don’t have these worries but it is making me think about them.
She did not 'get' raped and murdered, like it was something she did that caused it. She was raped and murdered by someone who took advantage of her being a lone woman.
Language is important here.
It was a reminder that on this topic words matter. There is so much victim blaming, disbelief and dismissiveness that it is important to be accurate.I understand your reaction, but Magnus clearly didn’t mean that.
It was a reminder that on this topic words matter. There is so much victim blaming, disbelief and dismissiveness that it is important to be accurate.
She did not 'get' raped and murdered, like it was something she did that caused it. She was raped and murdered by someone who took advantage of her being a lone woman.
Language is important here.
For the record, I didn't think you were, but the language you used could certainly convey to a passing reader that you were.'ended up' would have been better. But I most definitely wasn't victim blaming.
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