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UK captains of industry have charity night where they sexually assault young female 'hostesses'

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"No they can’t. They can pay to see you take part in a fight that regulators have a responsibility to ensure is fair enough not to present undue risk, and where they have a responsibility to stop it if it goes too far.

I can’t just pay one desperate person to beat up another desperate person."

and if prostitution were regulated and run to the same standards as boxing? shouldn't it be?

"Ah, so being able to pay to engage in an assault is to be justified on the basis of tradition..."

no, not justified. I don't think boxing is justifiable either but I don't think it's going to disappear because I want it to and neither is prostitution.

"For a start, there is little point in criminalising to one forced by economic coercion into offering themselves for the assault. The criminal is the one taking advantage of their economic power."

yes i agree but even criminalising the customers affects the workers. they can't advertise, can't work in a safe environment. Why couldn't it be regulated properly?

sorry, i should learn to use the quotes properly.....
 
Did you not read my earlier post? I'm saying it would be be better if prostitution were fully legal and events like this could recruit people without havign to use bait and switch tactics and ambiguous job descriptions.

I'm, saying that the organisers wanted prostitutes, couldn't hire them legally so instead they hired hostesses and turned a blind eye to the abuse going on.
You do realise that prostitutes (I'm going to use that word for disambiguation) are frequently abused too, don't you? They are - shockingly - also women capable of human feelings. And 'legalising prostitution' won't do squat to change anything as long as entitled sociopaths like those men are allowed to get away with this sort of behaviour?
 
You do realise that prostitutes (I'm going to use that word for disambiguation) are frequently abused too, don't you? They are - shockingly - also women capable of human feelings. And 'legalising prostitution' won't do squat to change anything as long as entitled sociopaths like those men are allowed to get away with this sort of behaviour?

Yes I do realise that, what I'm talking about is harm reduction at most.
 
The equivalent to boxing is a live sex show, not prostitution. That’s the point I am making. You are drawing a fatuous false equivalence.

yes I see that but the people in the sex show are still having sex for money. What's the difference other than that they work in a safer environment? which is exactly what I'm saying all sex workers should have.
 
Why didn't the organisers hire 130 escorts? There would have been no ambiguity then about the role. :rolleyes:

I should imagined that the FT have done themselves no favours as far as their advertising take goes, they have offended a lot of very powerful people.
 
yes I see that but the people in the sex show are still having sex for money. What's the difference other than that they work in a safer environment? which is exactly what I'm saying all sex workers should have.
...my dividing line for legality is the point you can pay to do something yourself that would otherwise be assault. I can’t pay for the right to beat someone up and not should I have that right.

No they can’t (pay to see you be beaten up). They can pay to see you take part in a fight that regulators have a responsibility to ensure is fair enough not to present undue risk, and where they have a responsibility to stop it if it goes too far.

I can’t just pay one desperate person to beat up another desperate person.

You might think this difference is unimportant. It is not. It is the heart of the matter.
 
Why didn't the organisers hire 130 escorts? There would have been no ambiguity then about the role. :rolleyes:

I should imagined that the FT have done themselves no favours as far as their advertising take goes, they have offended a lot of very powerful people.
To your first point, there is still ambiguity if escorts are waiting on tables. To your second point, I think the future of young women is more important than those people's feelings. Or money. Young women are still going through the same shit now as they did twenty years ago. That has to change.
 
and the person they're having sex with? just whoever the other employees is?
An individual who also knows exactly what they are signing up for and knows where their absolute right to withdraw lies. An individual who has had the chance to agree what the rules of engagement are and has no interest in circumventing them.

I still hate the idea of it, mind, and judge those who would go as morally bankrupt. But it is qualitatively different and can be judged for legality on its own merits, not by analogy to something it isn’t.

In terms of saftey, why would we allow sex workers on tv or sex shows more security than those on the street?
I’m not allowing anything here. You are.
 
and the person they're having sex with? just whoever the other employees is?

In terms of saftey, why would we allow sex workers on tv or sex shows more security than those on the street?
For a long time it's been known that prostitutes on the streets are less safe than women working together in a flat or house. Yet the latter is criminalised while the former isn't. Go figure
 
and the person they're having sex with? just whoever the other employees is?

In terms of saftey, why would we allow sex workers on tv or sex shows more security than those on the street?

There should be no sex workers on the street. It is time that the law caught up with the actuality, and brothels were legalised in the UK. I would rather that no one had to make a living in this way, but whilst it happens, it should be as safe as possible. Working on the streets is never safe.
 
There should be no sex workers on the street. It is time that the law caught up with the actuality, and brothels were legalised in the UK. I would rather that no one had to make a living in this way, but whilst it happens, it should be as safe as possible. Working on the streets is never safe.

Poot and Pickmans agree?

What happens if these rich twats simply hire a brothel for their charity night? Isn't that pretty much the situation I've been talking about?
 
If the organisers had hired prostitutes/escorts then that would have ruined (much of) the fun for the guests.

Removing both the pretence that these women are being won over by their charm and sophistication and deeper down removing the raw thrill of flaunting their power over the waitresses.

Prostitution would've been too banal a transaction. It wasn't (just) about sex.
 
If the organisers had hired prostitutes/escorts then that would have ruined (much of) the fun for the guests.

Removing both the pretence that these women are being won over by their charm and sophistication and deeper down removing the raw thrill of flaunting their power to over the waitresses.

Prostitution would've been too banal a transaction. It wasn't (just) about sex.

Exactly, it's not about sex, it's about power.
 
Bad language on my part. With increased regulation the only people who wouldn't be "allowed" to do anything are those who exploit the situation as it is.
If those exploiting economic coercion to force sex on another were prosecuted for assault, I reckon things might start to change. Attitudes towards it for a start.
 
Poot and Pickmans agree?

What happens if these rich twats simply hire a brothel for their charity night? Isn't that pretty much the situation I've been talking about?

I was agreeing with Sass's last sentence, really. Sex workers need more protection. But if a village is being stalked by a lion, rather than keep building fences, eventually you're going to have to shoot the lion.

So let's deal with men's attitudes rather than keep trying to protect women.
 
Firstly (as others have said) this behaviour is not about sex - its about men bonding by demonstrating their (class and gender-based) power over these women. And even if the women were all prostitutes, they should be able to negotiate and be suitably paid for any sexual services, and would have limits and boundaries about what they would do (sometimes as simple as no kissing), and should be able to refuse consent. This would be sexual assault and harassment and appallingly exploitative work conditions whatever the job title.
 
If the organisers had hired prostitutes/escorts then that would have ruined (much of) the fun for the guests.

Removing both the pretence that these women are being won over by their charm and sophistication and deeper down removing the raw thrill of flaunting their power over the waitresses.

Prostitution would've been too banal a transaction. It wasn't (just) about sex.

FWIW there is at least one report that they did hire (edit: sorry - the report actually says they were present, albeit in matching garb) prostitutes/escorts for the afterparty, but had them wear red dresses rather than black.
 
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