TBH, your perspective looks a lot like someone worrying about how the tablecloths aren't straight, while the hotel is burning down around them.
The people who are fighting in this war are just that - people. They might be "workers", but right now, they're people, either defending their own land, or attacking someone else's land. And there's nothing we're going to be able to do about any structural aspects of their relationship with their various states while there's a hot war on the ground. Maybe save the idealistic ideologising for when the war is over, and people are trying to win the peace?
And I really don't quite understand what point you're trying to make in criticising the provision of military aid. What are you actually suggesting?