taffboy gwyrdd
Embrace the confusion!
Are you suggesting that everyone who believes that the events of 9/11 were caused by a conspiracy carried out by a secretive network of Wahhabist islamists should be labeled a conspiracy theorists? Conspiracy theories aren't about conspiracies, they are about events. Typically, they involve uncritically speculating about hypothetical conspiracies to explain these events and a reluctance to consider evidence that contradicts the conspiracy theory.
They also give a causal emphasis to conspiracies - imaginary or otherwise - that is unhelpful, as it prevents people from looking for other wider causes. 9/11 was caused directly by a conspiracy. Everyone agrees on that, even if we disagree about who was in on it. But, if we accept that it was a network of Islamist militants, rather than an inside job, the conspiratorial aspect is almost irrelevant to a wider discussion about why it happened. The questions become: Why did the plot happen? What can we learn from it? How can we avoid this sort of situation in the future? How should 'we' respond?
In general, conspiracy theories leads to passivity, paranoia and isolation for those who are sucked in by them.
Again, you are going along with certain types of conspiracy theory. Lordy, have we been here before. Your attempt to put it down to "events" rather than "conspiracies" doesn't hold up with regard to the organisations that are considered, rightly or wrongly, to be complicit in such events.
The last line of your post happens to be true, but is not of itself a reflection on the viability of any given CT.
As to 911, "inside job" and "network of islamist militants" / "Make it happen on purpose" and "everything as the Commission said" stand as somewhat binary positions often advanced with some stubborness and resort to insult. But there are a vast range of possibilities in the territory between them.