I'm also "naive" for not thinking it's a massive problem if someone doesn't know/didn't believe me if i told them that fish and chips came from jewish immigrants
for people who say that "my voice is the most important" on these matters, i've seldom encountered more blantant examples of being told what to think, what racism is, and how to react to it.
i've fell out with someone i thought was a mate over this ideology, she's told me i'm "degrading and disgusting" as well as racist and all sorts of other shit.
her mate wrote a message on her wall with an article about "cultural appropriation," mentioned my name, saying that it "might help" my name was obviously spelt wrong.
really really hate this shit.