The39thStep
Urban critical thinker
What made it possible for you then, that thing that 'the likes of Eileen' would never dream of? Do you think she doesn't know anyone who wants to or has retired in Spain because only posh people do that?
What made it possible for me Bimble?
Well to be honest I never really had any ambition or dream to live abroad aside from when I was young and had a period of looking at the adverts in the magazines in the Sunday's papers for wooden houses overlooking lakes somewhere in America and thinking that would be great. Never did any good on languages, never had a skill or type of job ( aside from a couple of years building work ) that would transfer abroad. Used to like going on holiday and as the years went by every now and again I'd say to the missus when we retire I'd love us to rent somewhere in Spain or Portugal for three months. That really was it tbh.
What made it possible was that my wife died within a year of being diagnosed with cancer tbh. The kids had left during the previous three years and I suppose someone dies who you are very close to it makes you think about your own mortality and what you might do with the rest of your life. So I decided that I didn't want to stay in the house, didn't want to do the same job, and wanted to do something completely different. It was then that I thought why not go abroad and try living there for six months. .So I put a request for redundancy into the two year cycle at the Council, put half my salary into an additional pension, sold the house at the end of the two years , took the redundancy and early pension and just went. With hindsight, it was probably running away tbh. Hope that explains things.