Manter
Lunch Mob
You really are a nasty little sex pest, aren’t you?You said
"And while I’m on it- the delusion of men. There appears to be no ‘she’s out of my league’ filter, at all. On one level charming- maybe they really think it’s their sparkly personalities that matter? Maybe they think they have sparkly personalities?!"
That's what you said, and all the abuse in the world won't change that. But well done accusing me of being a rapist.
I don't know if this makes you feel big or clever, but let me explain for men in the thread who don’t have whatever grotesque issue you do.
Any man can approach any woman, at a time that is respectful and appropriate and see if she is interested in them. It’s worth doing a quick sense check before you do. Is it remotely likely? Has she ever shown any sign of being interested? Is she doing something else, Is this approach guaranteed not to scare, upset, or discomfort her? Am I abusing a position of authority?
If you reckon your approach passes all those tests, you can approach. She gets to say no. Without explanation or caveat.
Then you fuck off.
Repeatedly coming on to and harassing a woman is fucking gross.
The fact men do it is monumentally fucking gross and any man who plays games with that because it makes him feel big and clever is the sort of cunt who needs to come with a health warning. Preferably tattooed across his forehead.