ViolentPanda
Hardly getting over it.
Sorry to say so but tghose who are happy in themselves do not speak as you do.
I hate to disillusion you, but "human nature" (to use a ridiculous expression to encapsulate human social interaction and psychology) is such that people who are "happy in themselves" are absolutely capable of speaking in such a way. "Human nature" is contradictory, dichotomous or "worse". Self-contradiction is part of everyday life, as is hypocrisy and "little white lies".