Yes, good points. I was saying I didn't recognise the bleak, dystopian view of a dysfunctional society with loners isolated in their misery and misogyny. It's a large and complex society, with large and complex problems, but it really isn't a land populated solely by nutters and freaks.
I think over here we also underestimate the good about some core American values- or even that they are honestly held. They do have a love affair with guns, but remember this is a society that was hewn out of some seriously inhospitable terrain. In relatively recent memory, it was a settler society- you looked after yourself. If your neighbour tried to steal your land, or wolves ate your livestock there was no government or social structure to deal with it- your family starved. It is almost a folk memory that you needed a gun to protect you and yours. Then you have British tyranny, the civil war- it is an article of faith for many Americans that authority is not especially trustworthy and you need to be able, if necessary, to strike out alone. Many genuinely fear that the government will come for their guns and then start on their freedoms... They aren't by definition bad, trigger happy etc..... They are working from a totally different starting point, we as Europeans see the outcome of their conclusions and find the whole thing insane (if I had a freedom that resulted in however many dead children, I'd be inclined to give it up....) we do have a totally different history and social context.
Slightly rambling post, but I guess what I am saying is that if we dismiss these atrocities as the product of a sick culture, we are not really understanding them