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Love and solidarity
Whiteman - worst superhero ever.
White/jewish woman, actually - check your super-hero stereotyping
Whiteman - worst superhero ever.
It's all simple, Stop doing what you're doing - go elsewhere and stop worrying about being where the next artists hang out is (this is stuff that you do voluntarily, the gentrification stuff). Stop looking at yourself and others in racialised terms. Try and understand how in the US race is a a refraction of class ('racecraft'). Talk to normal people. Stop thinking about yourself.
In an attempt to be fair to the author, she does appear to be attempting to talk to normal people, and she does appear to have at least some insight into her position.
She's probably bang to rights on the gentrification stuff, but it would be even more a manifestation of privilege if she simply upped and went elsewhere to somewhere she wouldn't have a similar experience. Similarly, it takes a lot of thought and experience for most people to stop looking at self and others in racialised terms.
Her initial reaction seems to be overly emotional and thinking about herself, but maybe there's a possibility she can move beyond this. There's nothing in particular in her piece to suggest this, but who knows...
"On a recent Saturday morning, I left my Bushwick apartment in yellow galoshes and a black raincoat, my red umbrella tucked under my elbow, my yoga mat swung over my shoulder."
"While I acknowledge the many manifestations of my white privilege and care deeply about creating an equitable society, I continually confront the paradox of being both the oppressor (white) and the oppressed (Jewish)."
Is it really so binary? Is it really so dificult 'confronting this paradox'?
"I have pondered, investigated and deconstructed my own social identity as both white and Jewish for years."
She should get out more
"when all I have to do is close a door to make it seem like I am bulldozing an entire city? Simply by being white, I am aware that I trigger other people’s pain."
Intersectionalists don't have a theory of power, or at least not a good one. It leads them to personalise political arguments and self-dramatise relentlessly. Politics becomes internal, about techniques of the self.
"Maybe it was the fact that I had intentionally closed the door — not because he was Latino, but because he was a stranger, and no matter how socially aware I strive to be, no matter how hard I work to negotiate my white privilege and unpack my simultaneous identity as the oppressor and the oppressed, there is still an impulse, deep inside, to overlook a stranger in the doorway.
Sometimes, negotiating this often juxtaposed, yet simultaneous sense of self, that’s how I feel inside: a stranger in the doorway, not sure which identity is in, not sure which identity is out."
She can never unpack her identity enough. She can never eradicate the impulses. Is it just me or does this stuff sound more theological than political? And so solipsistic. Remember the whites still have the power...to make things better... by treating the locals better! Whites are still the centre of this story, the active subjects.
how much social weight does it have? Outside of campus politics and the bubble- where is its impact? Apart from annoying me?
Some on this very thread have mentioned how its poisoning uni politics but outside of that?
People who go on to make your life hell in official positions and who can mobilise to freeze out people in academia - people who go on to plan the state and capital, this time along open diverse lines in the Long term People who make their guilt your issue in the short term.
if you were white the best you could be was an anti racist racist.
Absolutely we had the same in the 80s where the 'isms' all got well paid jobs in the public sector and built hierarchies of oppression and healthy bank balances.
I have had this conversation before but the conclusion of the 1980s hierarchies of oppression ( which intersectionality is very similar to) produced the marvellous conclusion that if you were white the best you could be was an anti racist racist.
http://loreley.flyingparchment.org....ill-be-intersectional-or-it-will-be-bullshit/ i don't know where to start with this ...
Let's get Laurie.
Why?
It's ok up to the last two paragraphs, then it goes completely conger eel.
to reduce left politics to a simple class struggle is at best a futile academic exercise; at worst, it appropriates the struggles of queers, people of colour, women, and other marginalised groups for the benefit of privileged white men, and is in itself a manifestation of oppression.
The inclusivity of my stable of bloggers will be intersectional with membership of the House of Lords
19. Let yourself cry and be emotional.
Men are taught that showing emotion (especially in public) is frowned upon and not masculine. Screw that… Challenge traditional expectations of masculinity and stand in solidarity with women and the LGBT community in changing gender expectations. Crying, being emotional, and being true to how you really feel despite cultural expectations is a MUST.
21. Read websites like Feministing, Colorlines, Jezebel, etc. for your news sources.
Check out these sites DAILY! All of them have great news stories from a feminist perspective and will help you in your journey towards becoming a better ally. What’s great about these sites is that they always have links to other great websites.
40. Never seek recognition or affirmation.
While some men are made fun of for caring about women’s rights and feminism, there is very something alluring about being a male feminist (or so I hear). There aren’t many of us, therefore it may seem tempting to let this get to your head. Also, it may seem tempting to seek validation and verbal recognition from women and people you know for caring about these issues and being different. Guess what, this is your responsibility. Why should you receive recognition when women don’t? This is why I absolutely hate it when I’m recognized at conferences for being one of like two or three males present. I don’t want the recognition and neither should you. Don’t advertise yourself as a “male feminist” in search of respect. You’re just going to come across as rude, fake, and completely disrespectful. Do the work with humility and modesty.
52. Learn about your own familial roots and culture.
If you don’t know where you came from, it’s going to be be difficult to see where you’re going. Explore! Culture and diversity is beautiful, and being able to appreciate and respect culture will make you a better ally.
Intersectionality is vital to allyship! Your race/ethnicity are important, and it will set you down different paths. White male allies will have different experiences than male allies of color. Understanding how your identities intersect matter!
59. Respect “her” culture.
Make an effort to learn about your girlfriend, partner, or spouse’s cultural background. Respect her culture’s traditions and love ALL of her.
70. Learn and use appropriate vocabulary.
Go back to #25 and check out those books. Familiarize yourself. Here are some keywords you should know: feminism, patriarchy, oppression, privilege, resistance, intersectionality, LGBTQQIAA (and what each letter stands for), double consciousness, masculinity, femininity, differences between sex and gender, gender spectrum, sexism (and all of the -isms), glass ceiling, glass escalator, whiteness, etc. That’s a good starter list. Believe me, there’s a lot more.
80. Make your space feminist!
Posters, wall art, flags, or any feminist propaganda! Make your room an inclusive, decorative place to remind you of what you’re invested in. On my wall, I have posters and flyers from all the events and protests I have ever attended in my college career.
81. Make a Twitter account.
I’ve found tremendous success in connecting to other feminists and allies via Twitter! I strongly suggest you make a Twitter and use that to keep up with feminist blogs, activists, and movements.
84. Cook with your girlfriend, partner, or spouse.
Come on, it’s cute. It shows her you care. It might even help you out later down the road.
94. Showcase your feminist pride! (If you’re comfortable)
Wear t-shirts, sport wristbands, or put cool bumper stickers on your car. Make noise! There are many different ways to do so. As a man, you’re bound to draw attention and possibly rally support with your feminist gear. Here’s my favorite t-shirt design.
38. Put yourself in situations for self-growth through activism.
- If you have an opportunity to learn more through a job, internship, or position in activism, I encourage you to give it a whirl. Activism is a beautiful, raw way to put your beliefs into practice.