frogwoman
No amount of cajolery...
My grandma often says offensive things about Muslims, black people and how she likes Nigel Farage. I used to argue with her a lot about these things but then I thought that I might be silencing the voice of an elderly person who is not as privileged as me because of her age, so then I stopped arguing with her. But she always tells me how much she enjoys arguing and wants an argument, so is my not wanting to have an argument with her on topics such as immigration, the greatness of thatcher and so on just me trying to silence her voice again by stopping her arguing with me?