Such delicate flowers would certainly be shocked by some of the things said by people I've worked alongside.
That is why Laurie Penny has made you look so silly and pathetic here. She must certainly be laughing now...
I'm not a delicate flower, but I have been genuinely frightened by some things men have said to me on the Internet (not here)
There's a general tone developing.Did I say you were?
There's a general tone developing.
Not from you specifically. Not even just on this thread. That if you want to mix it with the big boys there's a level of shit you'll just have to put up with.What tone is that?
Not from you specifically. Not even just on this thread. That if you want to mix it with the big boys there's a level of shit you'll just have to put up with.
Not from you specifically. Not even just on this thread. That if you want to mix it with the big boys there's a level of shit you'll just have to put up with.
Ok that's fair enough, I understand what you mean better now.i really hope that's not the impression i'm giving, more that if you say things in public that are politically controversial you will cop a lot of shit and i'm not really sure how that can be legislated against, or if it should be
and that shit will be flavoured with the prejudices of your opponents, whether thats racism, misogyny, homophobia etc, look at the class based shit the EDL gets from people like Laurie's mates
Ach... I can't quite articulate this properly. 'big boys' was metaphorical there really. It's hard to talk about this kind of thing without coming across as ' wah wah you should be making allowances for me so I can join in' which is I think what people think LP is doing.
Nowhere have I said that. But I do think that Delroy has a point. There are some people who have lived quite sheltered lives and their level of shock seems to reveal their naivety about what actually goes on in the world, the views people hold, and the openness and ways in which they express them. Ever worked with a vile racist who knows you've got an Asian girlfriend? There's banter and then there's something else. It's not to be accepting of it (although sadly at times you have to when knowing to pick your battles as an individual), but to be grimly aware of it, square in the face, some people more than others, day to day. There are indeed some delicate little flowers out there. And a lot of these other people haven't been 'big boys' in my experience, but sad, relatively powerless (in the grand scheme of things) men.
Typing in bath, sorry for typos - wet hands
that room was for sleeping and shagging in, not for entertainment.
Fuckin' hell! Why would you want to be on the internet when you're in the bath!
that room was for sleeping and shagging in, not for entertainment.
My bedroom is strictly for bedroom activities but the most excitement it has seen in the last year is what happens in the books I am reading. Like many things in my bedroom it is largely fictional.
Read that back to yourself
From upper middle class Laurie Penny's bed linen to the habits of Delroy in his PFWC bedroom. Butches will rage!
There's an "are you not entertained, is this not why you are here" gladiator meme in that somewhere I'm sure of it.
From the front page of the list:she is rated "ta-daa". i don't know what that means.
Wait till this current furore dies down, then pile in with the criticisms of her ageist languageLaurie Penny is being criticised for using the word lunatic in her NS column - http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog/2013/01/this_minimally
She's going crazy all over twitter about having said it
Laurie Penny is being criticised for using the word lunatic in her NS column - http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog/2013/01/this_minimally
She's going crazy all over twitter about having said it
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost@spiraltastic@safarazzz@salvey1@smallcat@lisa_witch thank you for flagging that up. I'll edit and make a note.
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost@spiraltastic@safarazzz@salvey1@smallcat@lisa_witch I am open about the fact that I have done a lot of reading…
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost@spiraltastic@safarazzz@salvey1@smallcat@lisa_witch …over the past few yrs which has radically changed my views
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost I used to be an ableist, classist (etc) shit. I don't deny this. It makes me cringe now.
Delroy Booth @DelroyBooth
@jonanamary@AKvltGhost Fair enough, although I'm not keen on the word "classist" personally
Delroy Booth @DelroyBooth
@jonanamary@AKvltGhost I mean I'm very classist, exception I'm pro working class and I bigoted against the upper classes
Delroy Booth @DelroyBooth
@jonanamary@AKvltGhost so that kind of privilige theory prism and that language isn't really very helpful for me
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost ta. I'll amend as soon as I'm up because the mobile flickr page = unusable. & genuine thanks for flagging those up.
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost as their continuing presence on my flickr account adds more drops to te ocean of oppression/kyriarchy.
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost I honestly feel that the feminist/anti-racist etc blogs I started reading a few years back changed/saved?! my life.
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost it has been very useful for me personally as I have begun to unpick/become aware of my various privileges.
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost don't wish to imply that I'm trying to "atone" for past "sins" as a) it's not all about me & b) it's not all abt me
Jo @jonanamary
@DelroyBooth@akvltghost but having 1st hand knowledge of how someone's way of thinking can do a 180°, I try & do my bit to convince others.