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I completely agree with this. And people should note the last sentence, and that I said "start from" not finish with.
Of course there's going to be conflict and violence between people no one is suggesting otherwise, but from the foundation that danny outlines above we can then start to build systems to minimise conflict and maximise cooperation.
One of the issues is, whilst few would disagree with you about the starting point we are having this discussion in context.
In my experience, the single most frustrating thing is feeling like there are no solutions/ways of changing things. Feeling impotent can nuture dismissiveness and belligerence. People hunker down and become rigid in their thinking and interacting as a way of self preservation.
Because of this it's simply not enough to tell people they are wrong and not offer up or be willing to model or to explore practical ways of applying theory or methods. Which is what this thread is about IMO.
What can be done? Can we explore possible resolutions/solutions/change factors? Do you have any examples from personal experience?
These questions are not exclusively aimed at you obviously.
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