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NB is going to get a shock when she returns from her 2 week fling.
Nicola Bulley Missing
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friedaweed
Me and me girl named Jane
platinumsage
HaveMyPassword123
The police's biggest fuck up was to withhold the high risk welfare concerns bit, and push the public appeals without that. This made it seem like a true mystery and of course people speculated about abduction. This caused it to go viral and they're now dealing with the consequences of unleashing that demon.
I don't know why they couldn't have been more transparent. It seems routine around here for police to talk about particular vulnerabilities or concerns for safety when appealing for information on missing persons.
I don't know why they couldn't have been more transparent. It seems routine around here for police to talk about particular vulnerabilities or concerns for safety when appealing for information on missing persons.
yes have to wonder also whether the partner couldnt have avoided some of the flak on social media
friedaweed
Me and me girl named Jane
Fisher-folk if you please. This has been agreed many pages back x
kabbes
First intersubjective, then internalised
Wow, you really really don’t get it. Which is fine, but you’re by far best off just accepting that and starting from the point of knowing that you just don’t get it.
friedaweed
Me and me girl named Jane
friedaweed
Me and me girl named Jane
Post reported.
Aladdin
Well-Known Member
Everyone including her friends and family and partner were adamant she had not gone in the river..they never gave any impression in interviews that Nicola had any problemsor issues or vulnerabilities.
It's extremely sad if she was so affected by menopause that she tried to self medicate with alcohol to struggle through. .... it doesn't bear thinking about. Poor woman.
Just awful that she was struggling.
i dont know what youre on about and i often wonder if you do
Cid
Proper break this time
I agree, I personally would prefer to be found. But within Joe's framework that makes more sense. Neither is... 'rational'. Never thought I would be discussing the plusses and minuses of different aspect of suicidal ideation here, but there we go. We should probably stop, it's pretty uncomfortable.
kabbes
First intersubjective, then internalised
I’m on about the fact that your judgementalism on this topic is the exact opposite of helpful.i dont know what youre on about and i often wonder if you do
AverageJoe
...
Ofc I'm not actually going to off myself.
But I do think about it as an option sometimes.
It is what it is
But I do think about it as an option sometimes.
It is what it is
Pickman's model
Starry Wisdom
It's always an option. But unlike other options eg throwing it all up and moving to pitcairn it's not something you can undo. Rational or not it's something which affects so many other people for years with whys and what ifs and what more could I have done
AverageJoe
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Why would I want to move to Pitcairn ffs.
I'd rather go to Butlins in Minehead.
Yeah, that's where my head is
I'd rather go to Butlins in Minehead.
Yeah, that's where my head is
Pickman's model
Starry Wisdom
It's an example. Kerguelen would be just as good, or new britainWhy would I want to move to Pitcairn ffs.
I'd rather go to Butlins in Minehead.
Yeah, that's where my head is
Cid
Proper break this time
Yeah, likewise, just to be clear.
Cid
Proper break this time
I wouldn't mind a hermitage on Athos (the monastic community, not the poster). Admittedly the religion is a bit of an issue, but reckon I could fake it.
tim
EXPLODED TIM! (Help me!!!)
Or shave your moustache off and move south of the river, like Lord Lucan did.
LDC
On est tous des pangolins
This thread is mostly shit and horrible (and I don't exclude my posts on here either) and much of it is only a hairsbreadth away from the bonkers social media shit that's rightly criticised.
Fuck knows what's really been going on for her but menopause can be life shatteringly difficult for some, and it's often poorly understood and dealt with by people and the medical services. Add alcohol abuse to that and she's clearly, as they have now said, a vulnerable person.
Hope she turns up and can recover her life... but if not RIP, life is fucking hard for some poor people.
Fuck knows what's really been going on for her but menopause can be life shatteringly difficult for some, and it's often poorly understood and dealt with by people and the medical services. Add alcohol abuse to that and she's clearly, as they have now said, a vulnerable person.
Hope she turns up and can recover her life... but if not RIP, life is fucking hard for some poor people.
savoloysam
Standing on the edge of the Hoover Dam
Her friends (not her partner iirc) are adamant that she would not walk out on her family, especially her children. Of course we all think we know somebody until they do something that surprises us. I'm not speculating she has for the record.
savoloysam
Standing on the edge of the Hoover Dam
example?
May Kasahara
take me to the feeling
99% of this thread is an utter embarrassment. Log off and do a jigsaw ffs.
existentialist
Tired and unemotional
Don't do this.
ETA and consider the post I've quoted as the example you requested 2 posts ago.
report the post if it concerns you i was just suggesting that there was a possible alternative aspect
existentialist
Tired and unemotional
It was insensitive, clumsy, and the perfect demonstration of your cluelessness around suicide. It doesn't need reporting...but YOU were the one demanding an example.
how insensitive? i was actually thinking of a documentary i had seen featuring an elderly gentleman who had lost a relative in a tower block collapse.Through his tears he said "we were the lucky ones you know because at least we had a body".
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