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Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered
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What do you make of all this - a manual for the "able-bodied, neurotypical"
Anyone can accuse you of anything anonymously and you have to know what they are talking about and apologise as publicly as possible.
It will probably be anonymous, because these messages come from a place of feeling uncomfortable and unsafe. Respect that fact. Don’t jump to conclusions. Realize you are in a place of privilege. The above message whovianfeminism received is actually quite polite. It isn’t fun to hear that you’ve messed up, but the anon phrases it as an I-statement, making it about how they would feel if whovianfeminism did this one thing. This is great. When calling someone out, using effective communication strategies is awesome and helpful. However, if you are called out in a more rude, aggressive manner, you need to respect that anger. Their anger is rational. Their anger is a safety mechanism.
Note this phrase later on "how hard your privilege is".
With any luck, because you read this, you’ll apologize immediately and all will be well. Many able-bodied tumblr feminists and SJ warriors have done it before you like diversityinya. You’ll be in grand company and can continue to party it up in the cool intersectional feminist club.
Unfortunately, sometimes you’re going to mess up the first time. You’re going to be upset and defensive and rush into things. It is okay. You can still fix things. Here on tumblr, someone else will probably call you out on your fuck up. This is a good thing! It is your second chance! Embrace it!
Embrace the call out. It smells like intersectionality.