chilango
Hypothetical Wanker
that's the point - I meant nothing personally by it. But others appear to indict or acquit people for remarks on a personal basis not on the content of what's said. I haven't *literally* (yet?!) invoked the mental image of Deborah Orr to stop myself ejaculating. It was a joke, although I do admit to finding her smug expression distinctly unsexy (does anyone disagree!?). But for this I had the lynch mob out. Whereas you can have a good old chuckle about giving women painful sexually transmitted diseases such that they emit an unpleasant discharge, and this is OK. I don't think it would've been if I'd said it, even if I was clearly "having a laugh".
FFS leave it.