Athos
Well-Known Member
Athos, I accept because I trust people to tell the truth about themselves.
*because it's the right thing to do* suggests some more general imposition, doesn't say what you really mean.
I suggested going backchannel because talking about this stuff in any kind of abstract philosophical way is bloody inconsiderate to anyone who is living these realities.
TBH it's bloody inconsiderate even to think about talking behind closed doors.
You choose to define as women people who identify as such (as opposed to adopting any other definition of womanhood you might have chosen). Then there's no difference between us on that point.