I hadn’t seen your comments, I presume they were earlier? You didn’t appear to be in the exchange. Tbf some comparison to cats is understandable, comparisons when pages are in double figures maybe less so.
And yes the comparisons comment was flip, and I probably wouldn’t have made it if the person
scifisam was responding to hadn’t been a man. And there is a whole side debate as to whether dealing with these more serious things with wry humour if you’re in the group targeted is OK or not, I’m tired and probably not up for that at present so I will apologise if you felt that was serious reflection by association on you.