I have just returned to Britain after several years living abroad. Grew up here all my life and kind of ignored this, but coming back I can't help wondering... is it just me worried about Britain losing it's culture? Is everyone really cool with it or are people just numb to it now?
Living in places in East Asia and Africa, many people expressed to me an admiration for 'British' culture. British gentlemen, afternoon tea, the Oxford-Cambridge education system, etc etc. You know the stuff. After years abroad I kind of played up to it. I was proud to tell people about little quirks of our culture, our history, our religion and how it branched off from the rest of Christianity. How monarchy became the Magna Carta became the parliament became what we have today. All that proper 'British' stuff.
Coming back, it... seems like none of that really exists anymore? Seems like most areas I go to Brits aren't even a majority. And what's worse, most countries in Asia have better customer service, transport and atittudes than we do here.
Is anyone else worried about this? Are people just apathetic? Do they not realise because it's been a slow creep? Or do people really not mind all the things we've lost?
Anyway, for one post I'm going to forget the OP is trolling and address them sensibly -
It's a mystery what the OP thinks we have lost in our culture, especially in the 3-4 years they have been away? British gentlemen? What exactly is that? Wearing a suit and tie on their morning commute to work? While fashion changes over the years, you still have plenty of white collar workers going to their place of work like that. Afternoon tea? Still easy enough to find somewhere for that. The Oxford - Cambridge university system - still going strong. Christianity? Yep, still easy to go to church in one of our many and beautiful churches, if that's your thing. If the OP doesn't see any of that anymore, they should probably leave their house once in a while.
I guess the pub culture has been dropping off a lot but that's more to do with the pandemic hitting it hard, along with the cost of living. Even so, it's still easy enough to find a cosy country pub for a Sunday roast.
Transport? You think public transport is bad here, try getting a bus or train in the USA or Australia and you'll realise how brilliant we have it. Customer service and attitudes? It's hit and miss... just like pretty much anywhere else.
Then we get to our festivals - Easter, Bonfire night, Halloween, Christmas, New Year - all going stronger than ever. My missus is Canadian and she was blown away at just how huge Christmas is compared to what she was used to back home. St George's Day - not ever been a big deal so hard to see how it's disappearing. In fact I probably see more stuff for it than I did years ago. Burns night - even in England it's relatively easy to find a nice pub doing a proper, traditional night for it.
Of course, the country has modernised, just like anywhere else. Just because we're not all cosplaying as Victorians and more concerned with getting on with the important things in life, doesn't mean we've lost our culture, in the same way as the USA doesn't have everyone sitting around in log cabins on the prairie with ma and pa, anymore.