I have a friend who is due to be elected onto the SWP CC.
And then this summary on facebook appears...
"Your National Secretary has a totally inappropriate relationship with a teenage member of the party. He gets her drunk by buying her drinks while not drinking himself. They have sex. She is utterly distraught because she has not consented and did not want sex though, like many rape victims, it takes her a while to put a name to what happened. She asks for help from the CC of her party - they simply tell people that it is just a relationship gone wrong and there is nothing to worry about. Your conference then gives the defendant 10 mins to justify and defend himself, following which he receives a standing ovation and cheers. The young woman is not allowed to put her case to conference at all. She is simply refused. Imagine - you believe the leader of the party you belong to has raped you, then you hear that, in discussing the matter, he has received a standing ovation from your supposed comrades: I mean, really, pause for a minute to imagine what that must feel like. Then, members are expelled simply for planning to raise the issue at conference. Members of the CC lose their position for expressing private opposition to what is happening. Meanwhile something like 400 people - half the active membership - leave the SWP. Then *another* woman complains of sexual harassment. She has witnesses and documents. But the CC simply refuse to hear her case. Indeed, they quietly remove her from her job. Finally they are *forced* to accede - but they insist that the investigation is not allowed to find the accused guilty in his absence (something that would not happen anywhere else). The accused nevertheless - having insisting on remaining in post while hundreds leave the SWP in disgust - now chooses this precise moment to resign, with no explanation whatsoever to the membership. He is indeed found to 'have a case to answer'. Still there is no explanation forthcoming as to why the CC feel it has been worth shedding so many members and allowing its reputation to be squandered, all in defense of a man who, it appears, probably was in the habit at least of sexually harassing his subordinates even if you prefer to believe he didn't actually commit a rape.
A person who doesn't see anything wrong with this picture and believes that the problem is the opposition is either a complete moral wretch or just phenomenally gullible - too gullible, surely, to be involved in Marxist politics. The only possible excuse for not supporting the opposition is that you don't know the basic facts. Those who do know the facts frankly have no excuse at all."
Bolshie, you know I care, but you must also be aware this is a more bankrupt party than the one that let you go many years ago. You don't owe them anything (sorry if you think I'm being patronising, but I don't understand your more recent defence, given your previous complaints).
And personally. How do I deal with being a friend to this person? Rhetorical.