'Horse-trading, machine politics, demagogy, reliance on status, are the weapons of the powerful. Reason, science and arguing to convince are the weapons of the dispossessed.' From page 49 of The Case For Socialist Feminism, published 1989.
I agree with the quote and might suggest 'expressing common interests' as a 'weapon of the dispossessed' aswell. On demagogy: anyone opposed to an idea always says the opponent is engaged in demagogy so your answer above can be blamed as male demagoguery, as classic 'OMG what about the menz?' behaviour etc.
On this: "I think people love to dismiss socialist-feminism as being too based in class"
I find it a sad reflection that it is happening in feminist groups, usually socialist feminists are their backbone. Middle class feminists like to use working-class fellows as their activists for what appear, to me, empty goals - quotas, more liberation officers, procedural reserves for women at conferences women to be balanced with male voices, more (middle-class) women-friendly police training, more women police officers etc.
Yet this doesn't crop up in the cry for intersectionality.
If a working-class movement was to tackle sex inequality by imposing its demands :- force open creches, make workplace harassment an impossibility, increase social service provision, fully socialise pregnancy care and childcare etc, then the state will already have responded by having 50/50 women on boards and 50/50 women police officers.
As it stands now, every positive female advance in one area eg higher school grades and the like offers a backlash opportunity somewhere else eg too few male primary school teachers, destroying male grades.
Again on "I think people love to dismiss socialist-feminism as being too based in class"
Similar things are done to minority socialists who urge class cooperation against racism or immigration injustices - their ideas are too based on class, waiting for utopia, and hence damage minority interests etc - all largely false assertions but deployed with care by dominant middle-class elements of minority groups.