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Oh she has been travelling again....
Yeah and I was waiting for the conversation to move on to mention it but what do we think of Molly Crabapple visiting that Cooper Union thing?
Oh she has been travelling again....
I feel for her.. I would so tweet with a battery about to die.. it's essential...
Ah yes, the unilad example. I cannot even begin to describe how horrified I was with that.
That would be my approach to getting evidence, but not all women have my pain threshold. Evidence is often the only way to get even, unless you want all the men you know white-knighting all over the shop. (That would be a no, from me.)I don't agree that "the only advice women need to hear about rape is: get evidence". If I had only one piece of advice for women on rape it would be: get even.
C I've never realised emails could be traced in any way. I now intend on researching this.
That would be my approach to getting evidence, but not all women have my pain threshold. Evidence is often the only way to get even, unless you want all the men you know white-knighting all over the shop. (That would be a no, from me.)
This woman is my hero.
CSI fan spat on rapist's car seat and pulled out her own hair to make sure he was caught
I'll accept that I am in mightily pissed off mood and end my part in this bunfight but ...Come on now. That first bit was you having a problem with the semantics of a sentence. 'If' in this instance did not imply disbelief. It wasn't said that it's always definitely traceable. It was actual advice. Advice that will be found useful by a large majority of people. I've never realised emails could be traced in any way. I now intend on researching this.
The police cannot be trusted. Maybe you're lucky to have had a decent experience, but I've reported sexual assault to the police, I gave them the signature and postcode of the man, tons of other information and it definitely wasn't worth it. The evidence did jack shit. Going to the police just prolonged the experience.
Seriously, I understand how personal any general discussion on sexual assault is for women but misrepresentingargumentsposts like that isn't the right thing to do.
A week is more manageable for women than forever. Therefore the campaign would be more likely to succeed. It's not a minor tweak.
As I implied above: If get evidence is your only advice then it's you who's naive.
Prison is far worse than any beating and I ain't going down for life for the sake of some worthless piece of scum.My version of getting even doesn't rely on the criminal justice system
online email providers like yahoo, gmail etc will hand over ip details to police which identifies the computer you are using (or usually using) and your internet provider company who will provide a name and address, they can do this pretty routinely (i cant remember the exact procedure) and will if they are investigating a crime. facebook, twitter, google and all the rest will hand over details as well. abusive/sexually offensive emails are pretty much covered the same way as abusive phone calls in law. like a lot of things on the net abuse on social media etc, or things written about people rather than sent to them could be a bit legally messy because the laws werent really written to accommodate the reality of the net and theres a lot of stuff being tested in courts now - it is quite an important deal id say worth discussion outside of this thread, about what is acceptable/unacceptable abuse, private/public space etc
people can be anonymous, but youd need at least a reasonable level of technical knowledge (thats beyond me) in using proxies etc, or you can use cybercafs and online emails, but they do have cameras and witnesses and stuff, i doubt the old bill would go that far to investigate a malicious email, but they have in terrorism cases etc
What on earth makes you assume I meant a beating?Prison is far worse than any beating and I ain't going down for life for the sake of some worthless piece of scum.
He'd get as good a kicking as I could safely administer, but I want that fucker on the nonce-wing and am quite happy to ensure I gather enough scars to make sure of it.
This Wired article says you could just use Tor and hushmail: http://www.wired.co.uk/magazine/archive/2013/04/how-to/how-to-create-anonymous-email-accountspeople can be anonymous, but youd need at least a reasonable level of technical knowledge (thats beyond me) in using proxies etc
This Wired article says you could just use Tor and hushmail: http://www.wired.co.uk/magazine/archive/2013/04/how-to/how-to-create-anonymous-email-accounts
Lots of this is the knowledge of just ow precarious the privileges of he skilled worker are, remove the skilled workers conditions and they are likely to be in a worse position than their unskilled colleagues.True, and sadly us unskilled get looked down on by the skilled, as if we're outside of the working class. Seen it happen.
Put all this together and the abusive emails square with reality
I'm quite cautious about her claims because I've seen evidence that she is prone to exaggeration, misrepresentation and lying (cf her treatment of Spiney, ld and Joe). However (as sihhi has shown) she is working (a) the middleclass network, and (b) the social media network, for all she's worth and she gets national media coverage. Even if she's exaggerating, it's something of a self fulfilling prophecy because the claims in themselves form part of the encouragement. So I don't find it hard to accept that there's a strong possibility that she is, and even if she's not it won't be long before she is.just as an aside, do people believe laurie gets 3 or 4 emails a week from young women who want to be bloggers/social activists asking her advice, which is what she says first, because I dont, Id be surprised if she gets that a month
I agree with what you said in your 2nd parai don't find that as difficult to believe as the claim that she gets abusive messages at the level of people wanting to rape/cunt kick/garrot/bury her every single day
she has a legion of young followers (in the wider non-twitter sense) who rightly or wrongly see her as some kind of role model and you just need to look at the replies to any of her tweets to see the level of fawning from both young and old, male and female. So wouldn't be surprised if a load of people are getting in touch with her or maintain regular communication with her in relation to things like that
I meant a beating. I have no idea what you mean because you haven't said. I have a poor imagination I suppose.What on earth makes you assume I meant a beating?
A number of women who blog and people who follow a lot of women bloggers who write about 'red mist' issues have told you what their experience is and that it accords with Penny's claims.
Even if you're right - what difference does it make?even so i dont find it plausible, although if it includes people she's in regular contact with its a bit different, but the impression given is that these are separate unsolicited emails
thats a fuck of a lot, just on one very specific subject for someone who in the general scheme of things is pretty obscure, i might buy that cheryl cole or wayne rooney gets that number of emails asking for advice every week, but not laurie penny
Even if you're right - what difference does it make?
Are you leading up to "so therefore we should all ignore her cos she's not worth paying attention to"?and why would people ask her advice on being a blogger or social activist, given that she's neither - shes a journalist for an obscure left wing mag with a blog she's very rarely updated since around 2009
I don't think it is. Who are her target audience? Politicised young 'uns, often at university, who will look to the loudest young progressive voices available. She and Jones are it.even so i dont find it plausible, although if it includes people she's in regular contact with its a bit different, but the impression given is that these are separate unsolicited emails
thats a fuck of a lot, just on one very specific subject for someone who in the general scheme of things is pretty obscure, i might buy that cheryl cole or wayne rooney gets that number of emails asking for advice every week, but not laurie penny
Are you saying they are also national newspaper columnists?Sorry but I must have missed the bits where you/they told me that they too get abusive messages at the level of people wanting to rape/cunt kick/garrot/bury them every single day. Because for their experiences to 'accord with Penny's claims' that would have to be the case
For example when it was put to you here I noticed you were unable to respond to it. Although given that you seem to have a remarkable and consistent ability to fail to either read or comprehend what i've written in my posts in relation to this i'm not surprised. I'm not sure whose points you have been engaging with in your replies to me, but they certainly haven't been the ones i've made in the posts that you have 'nominally' replied to