Well, back in the 1980s nobody batted an eyelid at the use of the word, but times have changed and words like 'lame' and 'retard' are unacceptable in a negative context.
Fair play to you for recognising that you were a prick.
No. Fair play to you. Just thought I'd see how that went down.
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#Exhibit A. “She used the word ‘retard’.”
Yes, she did. In How To Be A Woman, Moran writes:
“I am, by and large, boundlessly positive. I have all the joyful ebullience of a retard.”
I’m not surprised people found this offensive. But - and I never seem to hear Moran’s critics mention this - she has apologised fully for it. She told the Hairpin:
with the word “retard” which I had in the book, that was a quote from my diary when I was thirteen. I know that the word is offensive now.
I wrote the book in such a hurry, and when it was pointed out that it was just kind of sitting there not in the context of what I’d said when I was thirteen, we immediately pulled it, issued a massive apology, and I would never use that again.
This sounds a lot like “listening to critics”, incidentally.#
Sorry. I'm just a bit bored. Was just seeing if I would be let off for listening to critics...which probably makes me even more of a prick. I blame the drink...as I would.