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Why are more young men than older seeing feminism as a bad thing?

Lastly all of this "men supress their feelings". Maybe it's more that we all need to spend more time with each other in the real world to actually express those feelings? and to see actual faces beemed back to us when saying those feelings? I can remember after five aside each week sitting on a wall with my mates, getting our breath back. and, after a time, we would start to open up about our lives, our worries etc. We need each other in the flesh and bone more than ever i think...oh hang one someones just retweeted me! can't finish this post sorry
 
I think Spooky Frank is spot on that young men are increasingly economically insecure and lonely and that manifests in different ways.

Young people (men in particular) are much less likely to meet someone, form a lasting relationship and have children than previous generations.

Something went wrong somewhere and the young generation have been screwed over. The other thing is much more interaction now takes place online and I feel like it's harder for young men to have normal interactions with young women that aren't filtered through apps/algorithms.
 
i mean i don't know much about feminism but wasn't this a core issue of feminisim - reducing women to an essential core of femininity that htey must perform from (to be controlled from), that it somehow informs everything they do. The pain of not living up to it. The boredom of living up to it. Etc.

tate et al are so clueless that they are now doing the same with concepts of manliness and malehood. I mean that's always been a problem but they are walking deeper and deeper into it instead of out of it. The real reasons for the wreckages of some of these young mens lives carry on and goes undetected.
 
why are older men taken out of it

loads of gobshite who love musk , tate and that cunt rogan hanging around with older fella
who like chappelle and other other comics with similar view points

jebus at 40 i'm the odd one for thinking they are all cunts in most situations :hmm:
i fucking hate that whole circle - rogan, and all his cronies. literal garbage. and they weild so much power when all they are a bunch of shite comedians. luckily htere's far better online communities that seem to get stronger nad stronger.
 
I think Spooky Frank is spot on that young men are increasingly economically insecure and lonely and that manifests in different ways.

Young people (men in particular) are much less likely to meet someone, form a lasting relationship and have children than previous generations.

Something went wrong somewhere and the young generation have been screwed over. The other thing is much more interaction now takes place online and I feel like it's harder for young men to have normal interactions with young women that aren't filtered through apps/algorithms.

Young men are quite angry and act out if they feel isolated and left out (hi) or they'll adopt quite tribal behaviour with chosen peers very easily.

We've not really figured out how to diffuse that safely.
 
Can def agree that US kids playing VR are a world ahead of (or rather behind) the UK kids when it comes to bigotry of various kinds.

Am maybe just lucky in that every youngster I’ve spoken to on the matter thinks that Andrew Tate is a ridiculous tool, at best.
My 11 year old stumbled from his usual roblox, rubix cube, tech stuff (mark rober type) and various other reasonable things into it autoplaying something within that horrendous circle of gibberish. Told us and we looked up together how to block certain things, is annoying when I could do it direct through the router before or IP/address blockers but you can't block all of youtube. He is a very logical kid tho so when someone attacked basically his sister and mum he knew it was "the bad internet" and told us. We downvoted a few things and told him how to and that was it, same as cancelling adverts he is well able to do. He used linux, rasp pi, android, amazon android and windows 7 and 10 before he was 10. We just taught him some things are for later and some people are awful, you can tell which is which and it works fine so far.
i mean i don't know much about feminism but wasn't this a core issue of feminisim - reducing women to an essential core of femininity that htey must perform from (to be controlled from), that it somehow informs everything they do. The pain of not living up to it. The boredom of living up to it. Etc.

tate et al are so clueless that they are now doing the same with concepts of manliness and malehood. I mean that's always been a problem but they are walking deeper and deeper into it instead of out of it. The real reasons for the wreckages of some of these young mens lives carry on and goes undetected.
To me feminism is just having things be equal regardless of gender, which I have no idea why people should object. Why should a person be limited or defined by any personal characteristic. I have what is probably a very unusual circumstance, 20 years together with a gap when a traumatic event happened. Not married, all kids have my surname as does SO, which they suggested. Two of three are technically step kids even if their bio donor never did a single thing for over 15 years except start another family and dodge maintenance. Said sod it I will do it myself and SO was keen on this.

We actually have on paper a very very old fashioned potentially sexist arrangement, I make the money, she does most of the kid stuff. We are not arguing over whatever tho cos its all done on who can do it/can be bothered/ is least disgusted/bored by it etc. She can paint but I will cook huge batches of food and do fancy stuff. She looks after the birds and I look after the garden and all DIY. Things are broken down very roughly by time spent and does it need doing now, thats what is limited. I did 8 hours at work and she did house/kid/animal stuff for the same time, thats the same. Today she got the car sorted and I took the food delivery and the dog out, all happy with the result.

My kids got to hear a lot of how the world works that I did not, it has been beneficial, they can all cook an get themselves wherever, if for some reason the 2 adults were unavailable my 11 year old could cope until the freezer food ran out. Then he could buy more from the shop if that bad. I never got this whole idea of "maleness" we got shouted and threatened weekly for going clubbing with glow makeup on in Plymouth going up Union street to Dance Academy. I can't understand why, like I know the reasons but its just gibberish to me. Where is the logic?
 
my experience with reddit a little while back was actually pretty encouraging. i found it mainly shot through with leftist thinking. those on the right appear of course but the debates can seem to be productive. this was across a variety of different threads too, not just those that would attract left wing crowds.

is never quite as simple as "all social media bad". i just think it doesn't help at all for some people some of the time.
 
Whilst there are good points being made, I am finding myself thinking back to hitmouse ’s post about the huge age gap in the data and thinking a) what percentage of men aged in the middle have these views (not necessarily about Tate but all the other stuff), and b) what percentage would my generation have had if they’d been polled aged 16-29? Point being is there’s always been a sizeable group of men with dodgy views of/behaviour towards women, and there’s been a backlash against feminism since it began. Not saying that it isn’t increasing, I’m just wondering by how much.
 
Whilst there are good points being made, I am finding myself thinking back to hitmouse ’s post about the huge age gap in the data and thinking a) what percentage of men aged in the middle have these views (not necessarily about Tate but all the other stuff), and b) what percentage would my generation have had if they’d been polled aged 16-29? Point being is there’s always been a sizeable group of men with dodgy views of/behaviour towards women, and there’s been a backlash against feminism since it began. Not saying that it isn’t increasing, I’m just wondering by how much.
What I also find difficult is figuring out what's changing as the years go by, what's changing because we're getting older (ie me and the average age of people around me) , what's changed because I've changed, and what's not actually changed but I've gotten better or worse at spotting it?

And one problem is, once you have a chance at settling down in this generation you have to take it, and most the time this means isolating yourself back into a family unit with a large burden of unpaid labour and series of expenses you have to work to pay, so these people who managed to get there aren't floating around in society so much and as you go about your day to day life you're more likely to come into contact with... well... everyone else.
 
I think Spooky Frank is spot on that young men are increasingly economically insecure and lonely and that manifests in different ways.

Young people (men in particular) are much less likely to meet someone, form a lasting relationship and have children than previous generations.

Something went wrong somewhere and the young generation have been screwed over. The other thing is much more interaction now takes place online and I feel like it's harder for young men to have normal interactions with young women that aren't filtered through apps/algorithms.

<lots to take in here but I'll save you the pain of writing another doorstopper and mostly do a Me, Too!>

I work with a probably disproportionate amount of twenty-somethings (of the geeky kind) - almost universally amongst the ones I've spoken to about it, they find it incredibly hard to meet other people socially, with almost everything that could be construed as dating only occurring through the chaperone of The Apps. It's frequently despised - putting yourself across genuinely over t'internet is difficult at the best of times, and nigh impossible in what has become a competitive environment with people feeling they need to have the doctored photos, the right make-up, the right filters and the right amount of superficiality, don't tell people about X, lie and say you've done Y, else they'll be ignored by the rest of the herd... and then you've got the companies running the apps either looking to tweak your matches to try and make as much money as possible from you, and/or mine more of your intimate personal data to sell. I swear if I was their age now I'd be having conniptions about it all. A lot of them are a bit lonely and find the whole situation depressing, but don't see any viable alternative than to play along with what they're told to do.

FWIW I don't actually know what sort of crap that Tate and co spout besides catching the headlines in the papers (I don't do much interwebs outside of technical stuff, it's largely all too horrible) but I did lose a colleague and one-time friend to the manosphere about fifteen years ago and had to cut all contact with him. Triggered by a move to another country followed by a divorce (and ensuing loneliness, drunkenness and too much time spent on the internet whilst being in a bad place psychologically, economically and geographically) he went full throttle on hatred of all women, to the extent that's all he could ever talk about.

Other comments about economic insecurity and social media are probably the biggest factors currently I think; the first is fertile ground for divide and conquer, us vs. them, etc - it always has been - so any mantra that can get a toe-hold has a good chance of becoming much stronger. Post-2008 the world's become a fairly terrifying place economically, perhaps especially in the first world, and that always ushers in a period of social conservatism, to varying degrees of extremity.

The second means that thanks to the power of the internet, what might have previously been a tiny clique of fuckwits that would have died of natural causes can link up with all the other tiny cliques of fuckwits, to the point that it can become big enough to be self-reinforcing and culty and ultimately self-sustaining. I reminds me of the Babel fish - "by effectively removing all barriers to communication between different races and cultures, it has caused more and bloodier wars than anything else in the history of creation". The same can and does happen with tiny cliques of nice people too of course - I'd wager the present-day awareness and general acceptance of the LGBT community is another side of the internet coin that became a force for good.

Like most cultural phenomenons, I suspect (and hope) that Tate and his ilk are largely a pendulum, swinging one way until it becomes so extreme as to encounter a reactionary movement that over time sends the pendulum swinging vaguely back in the opposite direction.

Whilst there are good points being made, I am finding myself thinking back to hitmouse ’s post about the huge age gap in the data and thinking a) what percentage of men aged in the middle have these views (not necessarily about Tate but all the other stuff), and b) what percentage would my generation have had if they’d been polled aged 16-29? Point being is there’s always been a sizeable group of men with dodgy views of/behaviour towards women, and there’s been a backlash against feminism since it began. Not saying that it isn’t increasing, I’m just wondering by how much.

I'm not sure it'd be possible to accurately extrapolate this given the difference in the economic and cultural climates between the generations (not to mention regional differences); it's possible that the same proportion of men have always had these thoughts (I've certainly met my fair share of anti-feminist men of every generation) but it's only when they feel "safe" or "justified" enough to do so that they display it outwardly, and in varying forms, and that's a factor largely beyond their direct control. Certainly (well, according to my mum anyway), in the second-wave-feminism period of the 60s/70s there were plenty of men who started to champion feminism because they thought it just meant a form of sexual liberation in which all women would be sluts and sleep with them... and turned in to rabid anti-feminists when they found out it didn't mean that at all. How would they answer the question even if they were even capable of understanding and answering it honestly?
 
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My own dating life (age 28) is a complete mess. I've got a stable housing situation renting my own place I refuse to fuck up, and pretty much every relationship I've had since I sorted that out has fallen apart early doors because I'm not remotely interested in irrevocabley changing my long term housing situation a month in to dating someone. Even if the other party has a stable housing situation, they don't know how to cope without housing as a motivator in a relationship. It gets worse when they realise my plan to get a mortgage isn't to find a boyfriend to pair up with. Its exacerbated because I look like someone who should be in an unstable situation but I'm not.

It doesn't look the same every time. One time, it's a man trying to rearrange my furniture in my own home to suit his vision for the place. One time it's a man knowing I'll never get a deal this good again trying to convince me to move to "help my mental health". One time it's a man I've been ON ONE DATE WITH assuming I'll be moving cross country for him. One time it's a married couple trying to set me up with someone assuming I'll move in with him within 6 months so they can take over my tenancy. He breaks up with me because after the couple start squatting in my home, instead of even mentioning it to my boyfriend of 6 weeks, I expertly maneuver them out. One time, it's my neighbours trying to move a single male friend of theirs into my home "as a favour because I can't afford the rent" then repeatedly trying to set me up with him, because he's new to the UK and needs somewhere to live. One time I get ghosted because the man I'm dating has found someone willing to move cross country into the area to be trapped in a very questionable and very rural housing situation with him where she doesn't have a car or a job or friends. He's spent years trying to convince everyone he's a good guy and got unlucky with his exes but he's willing to throw that away to transparently trap a woman he hates.

And a lot of the time I feel sad about it, because a fair amount of the relationships people fall into because they wanted to move out of their parents or their tenancy was up or whatever do actually work out in the long term, and I'm just completely unable to make that sort of thing work for me.

And all of this is before the resentment about careers or having a good social life or being healthy or being confident to speak truth to power, or attitudes to porn.
 
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muscovyduck I'm sorry these things are happening to you but bloody well done you for being able to see it and resisting it. I'm 46 and only fairly recently realised some of the things you've articulated in that post. Housing is one of the things that keeps me from entering into another relationship now, I've had a couple of years of being single after a lifetime of serial monogamy, and the last one took advantage of me in some of the ways you describe but i only really realised after we split up. Escaped tying myself to him forever with a joint mortgage by the skin of my teeth (we had had an offer accepted when I left him). I can't imagine moving in with a man or having him move in with me again.
 
People mentioning whether this stuff is actually increasing as a general trend. It's always been an assumption that racism, sexism etc has improved somewhat over time. I remember that quote from MArtin Amis, a very problematic writer in himself, when pressed about whether he was sexist "look, I am less racist and sexist than my dad was, he was less racist and sexist than his dad was." And i think there is a certain truth in that, things have improved in measurable ways. Nowhere near the end, but a general sense that the trend moves slowly towards "improvement" in these regards.

christ though can you imagine that gets reversed though. Like the general trend is away from all progress made in these matters?
 
Personally I think since the crash in 2008 and the digital revolution we will look back on these times and see them as very unstable. Trump, Andrew Tate, and all of the rest of the hellscapes we see online are just a mere symptom. It's probably difficult to get a full grasp on it until fully out of it.
 
Think it is worth mentioning that guaging the attitudes of different age-groups to Andrew Tate is in no way the same thing as guaging their attitudes to feminism.

I do think, quite apart from the content of what he comes out with, it's informative that such an obviously angry and unhappy person is someone that people seem to want to emulate. The best thing to aim for, and the hardest thing to achieve, is calm contentment IMO. But try selling that to young men in an uncaring world with their ideas and emotions all over the shop. It'd be like telling people to go take a nice walk to the moon.
 
I do think, quite apart from the content of what he comes out with, it's informative that such an obviously angry and unhappy person is someone that people seem to want to emulate. The best thing to aim for, and the hardest thing to achieve, is calm contentment IMO. But try selling that to young men in an uncaring world with their ideas and emotions all over the shop. It'd be like telling people to go take a nice walk to the moon.

I agree that peace of mind is ten times more valuable to a human being than "happiness", or even "experiences". It's hardest to achieve though when one's housing situation is vulnerable, or a car blow out (that you do the school run with each morning) means taking out pay day loans, or when CoOp are charging £5 fucking pound for a packet of herbal tea (true story, bro). I don't know how people on zero hour contracts can get any peace of mind. People's view of the future dominated with a retirement of poverty. I have very secure well paid full time employment and a quarter of my life is probably spent in financial insecurity related terror. I think you're a buddhist, right - well the Bodhisatva's Vow is one of it's greatests truths: enlightenment is impossible until all beings are englightened. The social is the subject. It's all very sad.

Andrew Tate has entered the chat.

you can see why people cling to twats like him.
 
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I think Spooky Frank is spot on that young men are increasingly economically insecure and lonely and that manifests in different ways.

Young people (men in particular) are much less likely to meet someone, form a lasting relationship and have children than previous generations
I feel like this is something I have to prepare my son for sadly, not to 'be lonely' but how to be OK without a long term relationship potentially, and to look after yourself. For generations boys have been brought up to expect a help mate in life to basically manifest and women are increasingly going 'Fuck that', and I get it. And these are women who are culturally encouraged to know how to manage a household, to have a rich emotional life outside of a relationship etc in ways men are not and living without a partner is not actually looking terribly awful. Especially, as has been mentioned, as we're all fucked and struggling economically anyway.

A fascinating quote I heard online was a guy saying 'These internet Bros will tell men they are up against the "top 10%" of men in the dating pool - no. You're up against how happy women feel in their own'. The bros crow and crow that women are lying when they say they're happy alone, and jeer at them about a future of loneliness and cats and just get 'stop threatening us with a good time!' in response. I just hear how scared these men are of 'dying alone'.

I don't think it's a matter of teaching my son he has to been this way or that for a woman (nb, fairly sure he's straight, unlike my oldest) but preparing him to be self sufficient and make sure he has good friends.
 
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stdP , I guess obvious hatred and/or depersonalised objectification towards women is witnessed in different ways by young men and young women. Men don’t have to feel that “safe” in order to express this stuff towards women. There was a fuck ton of it around 20 years ago sadly.

There'll likely be a fuck ton of it around in another 20 years too - it's been a thing for thousands of years and, like racism and homophobia and other isms, it's one of those prejudices that will probably never entirely disappear and typically only changes very slowly, over generations, like the Martin Amis comment above.

Obviously my perception of whether it's got notably worse in recent years is entirely down to what I'm exposed to and being aware enough of it - our experiences here will likely be wholly different. I'll certainly concede your point in that it doesn't take a huge amount of "feeling safe" for the inner misogynist to emerge in some people but that still comes across to me as being less common than it was 20 years ago (YMMV, obviously). My feeling is that whilst there's a generally improving trend in general, over my lifetime, and my hope is that symptoms like Tate and right-wing authoritarianism and populism are short-lived products of economic conditions and don't in themselves represent a backwards step for society as a whole.

My own dating life (age 28) is a complete mess. I've got a stable housing situation renting my own place I refuse to fuck up, and pretty much every relationship I've had since I sorted that out has fallen apart early doors because I'm not remotely interested in irrevocabley changing my long term housing situation a month in to dating someone. Even if the other party has a stable housing situation, they don't know how to cope without housing as a motivator in a relationship. It gets worse when they realise my plan to get a mortgage isn't to find a boyfriend to pair up with. Its exacerbated because I look like someone who should be in an unstable situation but I'm not.
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And a lot of the time I feel sad about it, because a fair amount of the relationships people fall into because they wanted to move out of their parents or their tenancy was up or whatever do actually work out in the long term, and I'm just completely unable to make that sort of thing work for me.

And all of this is before the resentment about careers or having a good social life or being healthy or being confident to speak truth to power, or attributes to porn.

This was the first time I've read of serial objectification from all and sundry not based on gender but access to housing and it was thoroughly depressing to read - sorry you've been subjected to that sort of treatment muscovyduck. From my POV you're doing the right thing though, having a stable housing situation is hugely important for one's mental health and you're right to regard it highly; possibly even more so is housing that isn't tied to a (mal)functioning relationship, which invites mutual disaster.

Probably I've just led too sheltered and privileged a life that I've never had to confront this sort of thing but I think I need to ask the youngsters at work about how much housing is a factor next time we're at the pub. I guess I assumed that "moving in" was still seen as a huge step, not "fifth date" material.

It'll probably be posted by someone else already by the time I post this, but an apposite article from The Graun this morning:

Not really anything new there, and no real examination of the economic angle. On the opening paragraph; certainly I've known a fair few people, men and women, who've had troubles with the word "feminism" based on negative stereotyping of the term to equate to "male-bashing" or "female superiority", in the same way that terms like "trans agenda" or "woke ideology" are repeatedly used to mis-represent what are essentially "equal rights" issues.

The talk of attitudes in schools certainly doesn't seem markedly different from my teenage years, I guess just with easier access to porn and better communication for bullying.

I'd be curious to know if anyone here has or knows kids/teenagers who have ever started to fall in with modern anti-feminism, or a close brush with it.
 
Yes, interesting, and sad, how housing may feature in relationships - it's so hard to find somewhere decent that if you have it, I can understand not wanting to jeopardise that for the sake of a newish relationship.
 
Yeah stdP, personal experience is a factor but it’s not very effective at noticing change over time. Personally I now hardly get any unwanted sexual attention followed by anger because I’m at that age of becoming invisible. I work in a female dominated profession, in an area of medicine that tends to attract at least 50% women, so work wise I tend to avoid a lot of stuff.

Sadly I’ll probably start seeing stuff in the next few years through my girls (about to turn 10 and 8). Well I already kind of have at a child toward child level. It’s a bit terrifying. :(
 
Whilst there are good points being made, I am finding myself thinking back to hitmouse ’s post about the huge age gap in the data and thinking a) what percentage of men aged in the middle have these views (not necessarily about Tate but all the other stuff), and b) what percentage would my generation have had if they’d been polled aged 16-29? Point being is there’s always been a sizeable group of men with dodgy views of/behaviour towards women, and there’s been a backlash against feminism since it began. Not saying that it isn’t increasing, I’m just wondering by how much.

The full polling is here: https://www.kcl.ac.uk/policy-institute/assets/emerging-tensions.pdf

It's more nuanced than the reporting has suggested with the views of young and older men not that far apart in a lot of cases but there is a definite trend emerging.
 
My own dating life (age 28) is a complete mess. I've got a stable housing situation renting my own place I refuse to fuck up, and pretty much every relationship I've had since I sorted that out has fallen apart early doors because I'm not remotely interested in irrevocabley changing my long term housing situation a month in to dating someone. Even if the other party has a stable housing situation, they don't know how to cope without housing as a motivator in a relationship. It gets worse when they realise my plan to get a mortgage isn't to find a boyfriend to pair up with. Its exacerbated because I look like someone who should be in an unstable situation but I'm not.

It doesn't look the same every time. One time, it's a man trying to rearrange my furniture in my own home to suit his vision for the place. One time it's a man knowing I'll never get a deal this good again trying to convince me to move to "help my mental health". One time it's a man I've been ON ONE DATE WITH assuming I'll be moving cross country for him. One time it's a married couple trying to set me up with someone assuming I'll move in with him within 6 months so they can take over my tenancy. He breaks up with me because after the couple start squatting in my home, instead of even mentioning it to my boyfriend of 6 weeks, I expertly maneuver them out. One time, it's my neighbours trying to move a single male friend of theirs into my home "as a favour because I can't afford the rent" then repeatedly trying to set me up with him, because he's new to the UK and needs somewhere to live. One time I get ghosted because the man I'm dating has found someone willing to move cross country into the area to be trapped in a very questionable and very rural housing situation with him where she doesn't have a car or a job or friends. He's spent years trying to convince everyone he's a good guy and got unlucky with his exes but he's willing to throw that away to transparently trap a woman he hates.

And a lot of the time I feel sad about it, because a fair amount of the relationships people fall into because they wanted to move out of their parents or their tenancy was up or whatever do actually work out in the long term, and I'm just completely unable to make that sort of thing work for me.

And all of this is before the resentment about careers or having a good social life or being healthy or being confident to speak truth to power, or attitudes to porn.
Christ on a bike, muscovyduck, that's shocking. Sorry you've had to put up with so much shit. X
 
Yeah stdP, personal experience is a factor but it’s not very effective at noticing change over time. Personally I now hardly get any unwanted sexual attention followed by anger because I’m at that age of becoming invisible. I work in a female dominated profession, in an area of medicine that tends to attract at least 50% women, so work wise I tend to avoid a lot of stuff.

Sadly I’ll probably start seeing stuff in the next few years through my girls (about to turn 10 and 8). Well I already kind of have at a child toward child level. It’s a bit terrifying. :(

Aye I probably also live in a bit of bubble (probably always have). As I think you know I work in a largely male-dominated profession (although my employer's more progressive than many and does at least seem to pay more than lip-service to equality issues, so I think there's more females here than at most IT shops) and whilst most of the blokes are perfectly nice there's still a disappointing amount of alpha-male types who'll often display MCP-tendencies of varying degrees when they think they can get away with it. I need to have a proper read of the methodology of the tests, but I just struggle to think of ways of ensuring an honest response to this sort of questioning, as I suspect a lot of people aren't honest with themselves about their attitudes either.

We're friends with a local family with two daughters of similar ages (10 and 7 IIRC); like me the mum's a bit of a computer nerd and like me both parents are also rather pessimistic about the environment their girls are growing in to. They place fairly strict limits over how much time they can use computers, what they can access, etc. Already the 10yr old comes to the table with tales of classmates engaging in cyber-bullying, pornography, deep-fake pornography and the like. Again, it's not wildly dissimilar to my own experience as a teenager but at least that usually only lasted between 08:30 and 16:00... now it's easy for it to be a 24/7 phenomenon and with much broader and easier access to stuff to shock people with. And with so much "social" interaction now being mediated through "big tech", reaching a larger audience and provoking more social exclusion are far easier than they used to be.

Jordan Peterson is like a more academic Andrew Tate.

Pretty much. He's a much less unhinged figure than Tate publicly and at least tries to dress up his ideas with a sprinkling of academic candour but largely tacks towards common right-wing talking points; universities being taken over by the nebulous "The Left" and indoctrinating students in to being man-haters, and that the backlash against all the men-hating is thus largely inherent and justifiable. Also I think there's some guff in there about some character traits being largely or wholly masculine or feminine (the ol' "men are rational, women are emotional" routine), which never gets old. There's probably a lot more going on there than I've let myself be exposed to and he seems to be a much more influential and dangerous man than pantomime villains like Tate.
 
My 22 year old lodger seems harmless enough, spends most of his time in his room or explaining how everything that has happened to him is someone else’s fault. Not the end of the world but his language when talking about a woman who recently rejected him was fucking shocking

Other 20s kids I know all seem to know they are in the grinder of life but seem to focus on weirder social media propagated explanations for how shit their current life and future looking rather than the more obvious culprits

Social fucking media

I never expected the youth to be anti vax anti trans, chem-trail great re-setter misogynists
 
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