This entirely discounts the terms under which Brexit the person who voted leave wanted and the reasons why.
The frustration, if it is such is you not realising and/or accepting that there were and still are a lot of ordinary, mostly working-class people who feel disenfranchised and left behind by the EU and voted accordingly. you seem to be incapable of seeing this and the reasons why.
not really, please see above.
You are completely right about your first point.
I do entirely discount the terms (were there terms in a binary vote?) and also the reasons and concentrate on what was actually done.
The action of voting.
And the consequences that flow from that action.
I have a problem with accepting that a lot of ordinary mostly working class people voted brexit because they felt disenfranchised and left behind by the EU for a couple of reasons.
One is that I am uncomfortable with what I think is rather a patronising attitude towards those people, where their motivation is guessed at, but if we have to go down that road isn't another guess that they are motivated by racism? One lobby says they were voting because they were downtrodden, and another lobby says they were voting that way because they hate foreigners.
A second reason is that I have heard many times brexit voters say stuff along the lines that they knew what they were voting for, and the losers should jolly well get over it.
So in the absence of certainty as to what motivated the brexit vote we (or I) am left to contemplate what flows from the result. Not contemplate why people voted the way they did.
And what I see as flowing from the result is nothing but bad stuff.
Earlier today when mentioning the lorry parks I referenced a Kent County Councillor who says we have to take the rough with the smooth, he was talking about the consequences that flow from the vote as much as I am when talking of the land border on the island of Ireland.
So to sum up I am not somebody prepared to accept interpretations as to why people voted brexit, I am much more somebody who wants to highlight the damage the vote has caused and will cause. Not conciliatory, not prepared to make the best of it, mainly because I am way too old for that kind of stuff any more.
If that is the reason for frustration the so be it, however I have stated my position and make no apologies for it however much I am abused on here.