What I find disturbing is the notion that what happened in these cases is dismissed as "a mistake". It's not a mistake is it? It's indicative of a deeply nasty character trait. I don't believe anyone ever raped anyone "by mistake". That it's a few moments "out of character". They must believe that they can just take whatever they want from another person.
And everyone around them, all their parents, lawyers, judges etc. also believe it's "a mistake" that can be just wished away without consequences as it's such a minor thing after all.
And these people, if they are allowed to go on to their good schools and good prospects and become lawyers, judges, policitians etc., they are people who believe that it's all "just a mistake" because it was a mistake for them right? So the bullshit perpetuates itself, seemingly forever.