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Niall Ferguson's deep-cover sock-puppet
I also had an ex boyfriend who would initiate sex in his sleep and when I was asleep. I thought he was a weird fucker (no pun intended ) untill I was awake next to him a few times and realised he was in fact asleep. I grew to like his sleep sex...that's prob well wrong.
It's calle sexsomnia. Genuine condition and defence.
I was raped like that once. But I was fantasising about him seducing me at the time, so he was a lot more upset than I was. That is something I do feel uncomfortable describing as rape, even though it was quite violent before he woke up.