When you no longer needed to be in what I think of as "emergency coping mode". Well done for keeping it together that long.I went along to bakunin's appeal hearing to support him. i was fine there, but ended up stopping an weebling in a layby on the way home.
thank you. fwiw i feel immensely guilty for it having worked out alright when other people with far more serious conditions are having a nightmare with it all, or just getting plain fucked over by the system.Good to hear that it's more or less worked out alright for you, tufty.
That's the nature of the condition isn't it? Any assessor worth their salt ought to have anticipated that as soon as they were told you'd got MS.I was alone for my original assessment and it took over an hour - I got a bit shouty.
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I'm sure that you do, and I don't think it is possible to be over-prepared for these sneaky fuckers, good luck.
I was alone for my original assessment and it took over an hour - I got a bit shouty.
MS mood swings
When you no longer needed to be in what I think of as "emergency coping mode". Well done for keeping it together that long.
No chance.That's the nature of the condition isn't it? Any assessor worth their salt ought to have anticipated that as soon as they were told you'd got MS.
Word. I sometimes wonder if the people who make the decisions are tested for a complete absence of imagination, combined with exceptionally low IQ.That's just it. I seem to have to be doubly-prepared and do double the work as I have to explain <snip>Having to explain that shit to every sodding question is enough to give you brainache
i would suggest though that ending up in a weebling mess when youy've gone as someon'es support (who coped absolutely fine) is astoundingly embarassing. I forgot to add that last bit to the previous post. bakunin started on a rant about IDS and distracted me a bit.
I'm surprised bakunin didn't tell us all about your weebling
nope, he's being a good housewife at the moment and doing the washing up.
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Oh, now if he's capable of doing the washing up, he really should be out getting a job don't you think? (Asssessor mode here)
i doubt they will qualify him for anyhting when they change the dla system. i'm hoping that by that time, I will be earning enough that I can support us without the extra. he's starting to sell stuff as well. we will do fine, dosen't mean we stop giving a crap abut this
I think a month's worth should sufficeIf a HCP "can't be arsed" to check for incontinence and as a result the DWP don't believe you, is it acceptable to send the DWP soiled clothing as proof?
Maybe I should ask how I go about this in my letter to the DWP.
I think a month's worth should suffice
Not sure how I'd explain a holiday in Malaysia (where we got taxis everywhere, and he spent most of the day in the water as it was lovely for him not to have to walk)
I don't think that they can ask direct questions of a companion/helper - everything should have been asked through you and you should be able to consult your companion if needed.
Family member emigrated there.
Just let rip. You should get points for anti-social behaviour.I was alone for my original assessment and it took over an hour - I got a bit shouty.
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Soiled undies delivered directly to Grayling's or IDS' face would be very satisfying.I think a month's worth should suffice
Just let rip. You should get points for anti-social behaviour.
I 'bit' my tounge when I had my assessment. Next time I get asked 3 times when I had my MRI scan I shall reply "What fucking part of memory loss do you not fucking understand"
after drinking lots of Guinness
I had my medical last week, sat for ages in the waiting room watching the others come & go, then a receptionist said i was waiting because my type of benefit needed a special person to become available which gave me a glimmer of hope.
The HCP was an actual doctor (a psychiatrist i imagine) and he was really sympathetic, seemed to have read the ESA50 carefully beforehand and cut the examination short, very clearly saying it would be OK i was overcome with relief. still seems weird after all that build up and reading not to be fighting an appeal.
Hopefully this might give some relief to people waiting for the appt, especially with serious mental health conditions. (i vaguely have OCD & PD-NOS on file, not 'official' diagnoses but been in contact with MH services for 10 years about). Dont get TOO relieved though - or you might pass your medical!
Yes, but although you've had your medical, what was the outcome?
im waiting on the letter, but he said very clearly not to worry, that my ESA would continue etc. and he would be informing them (DWP) to that effect. I have complete faith in his honesty
Your faith is touching. I hope it won't turn out to be misplaced.im waiting on the letter, but he said very clearly not to worry, that my ESA would continue etc. and he would be informing them (DWP) to that effect. I have complete faith in his honesty
Your faith is touching. I hope it won't turn out to be misplaced.