Keith - I'm on no sleep in 48 hours, this probably ain't the time, tbh, because I can't even really understand what you are saying but I am aware it isn't that complex.
People are making a lot of generalisations about veggies - I don't fear meat, I fucking love bacon, chicken etc, but, personally, I can't hack sitting down to eat flesh any more. That's really all it is; not some massive ethical stance or something I use to batter people with - I, pure and simple, don't like eating flesh and that's that. I love animals and that was why I became veggie when I was 6, but nowadays I understand that animals are going to get hurt by dairy farming. I like cheese though and feel like I need it for protein, so I have to swallow that bitter little pill.
It's near enough impossible to be completely ethically sound and I am waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more concerned about the plight of humans than I am the plight of animals, yet I still own a tv, mp3 player etc etc etc probably put together by little kiddies in horrible factories somewhere and, seriously, I love asian kids, man. That's probably another thread altogether tbh, but take it on trust that I do. This is why I don't consider what I - meaning ME personally - eat to be an ethical stance per se, it's just I knows what I likes and can stands and I can't stands eating meat no more. More power to people stronger in their convictions than me but fuck off to them if they are gonna put me down for not matching their self imposed standards.