Ah, I see what you've done now. You define 'fascist' to mean 'collective'.
No, it's perfectly possible to be collectivist without being fascist. The key here is voluntarism. The Israeli Kibbutz was essentially a voluntary (and hence non-fascist) collectivist form of organization. But generally speaking we can define fascism in terms of collectivism: fascism = FORCED collectivism (i.e. no individual is allowed to deviate from the collective), whereas liberalism = FORCED individualism. (i.e. groups are not allowed to form mafias or gangs that bully or force individuals to join them)
Certain decisions are taken at the collective rather than the individual level. Twas always thus in human societies. That's what a society is. We are highly social animals that cannot survive without the help of others – so we have to negotiate a deal with them:
I strongly disagree that society and sociality implies forced unity. The term social comes from latin and means "living together." Does a rapist and his victim "live together"? Is raper-rapist a social relationship? Is slave-master a social relationship? No. These are not social. If we look at the species which biologists typically term "social" (ants, antelopes) then what is their defining characteristic? Ants (in the same colony) don't kill each other. They don't eat each other. They don't use physical force against each other. In other words, they coexist PEACEFULLY. And that is the nature of sociality: peaceful coexistence. Violent, forceful behavior cannot be social. (In fact, in psychology it is called anti-social behavior)
So fascism (i.e. FORCED unity) cannot be social. Fascism is a form of ANTI-social behavior, because it is based on chronic violence. The only social system that exists is one that is 100% peaceful, and that is one in which all individuals are allowed to live in peace with each other ("laissez-faire" = "leave in peace"). Thus, the only social human system is laissez-faire capitalism.
put in language you might understand, rights come with obligations.
Yes! I *do* understand this, and I'm very greatful for you stating this because if you have studied feudalism you will know that this is precisely the definition of feudum, the most common form of property right in the feudal age and it is defined as a right that comes with obligations. Serfs had certain rights, and they were acquired with the duties to the feudal lord. The feudal lord also had rights to the king's land, but only in exchange for the duties to defend the king. In contrast to feudum was allodium, which was a right WITHOUT duties. Laissez-faire is a system based entirely on allodium. The revolutionary idea of the enlightenment was that the individual has "certain inalienable rights." I.e. rights without duties. Those rights were the right to be left in peace.
You cannot have any meaningful rights unless you are prepared to give something back to the collective.
Yes, that is the core of medieval feudalism and also precisely the idea that Mussolini wanted to revive with his Fascism. No feudal king could have stated this more eloquantly. But we liberals think that you DO have certain meaningul rights that you do NOT have to give anything for. Every individual has the right to self-defense and self-ownership. In liberalism ALL forms of serfdom are banished. You cannot inherit a debt or a duty. That is the core of the enlightenment reaction to the feudal system.
You need to grow up, basically. Your argument is at the level of a six-year-old having a tantrum because they have to go to bed.
Actually the defining feature of a grown-up is that he makes his OWN decisions. It is only the child that cannot live his own life. Originally collectivism was strongly linked to religion. We were all children of God, and as children we needed to be obedient and had a duty to our heavenly Father. (and his representative here on earth, the King) In the Enlightenment a strain of atheism threw out God, but retained the structure of religion. God was replaced with "the collective" to which we now for some reason had duties, and we were still like little children, only now we needed to have a Welfare State to take care of us. Sadly this strain of religious atheism won out, and as a result we have essentially reinvented the feudal dark ages.