littlebabyjesus
one of Maxwell's demons
The term social comes from latin and means "living together." Does a rapist and his victim "live together"? Is raper-rapist a social relationship? Is slave-master a social relationship? No. These are not social. If we look at the species which biologists typically term "social" (ants, antelopes) then what is their defining characteristic? Ants (in the same colony) don't kill each other. They don't eat each other. They don't use physical force against each other. In other words, they coexist PEACEFULLY. And that is the nature of sociality: peaceful coexistence. Violent, forceful behavior cannot be social. (In fact, in psychology it is called anti-social behavior)
Oh dear. You are overreaching yourself here. I'm afraid we must add biology to the list of subjects you know nothing about. Ants do not 'coexist peacefully'. An ant on its own will wander around aimlessly until it dies. Ants live in highly social hives in which all activity is performed, whether the ant knows it or not, for the greater good of the hive, including, if necessary, the ant laying down its life for the good of the hive.
Ants cannot exist without being part of a collective in which they perform tasks for the good of the collective. Humans are in fact more like ants than solitary animals. We don't last long on our own either.
One of the things you seem to be ignoring is the fact that where decisions are made collectively, that does not mean that the individual has no say. It simply means that the individual is only one of many that come together to make the collective decision.