But isn't the problem the underlaying ideas that the comments expose rather than the comments themselves? General point by the way not necessarily about this specific case.
For sure, but we are on more difficult ground there.
If you are talking about handing out punishments that are really aimed at the ideas behind an action, where the context is secondary then you are entering thought crime territory.
Those ideas are prevalent throughout society. Name calling over personal appearance is a common occurrence between both sexes in the workplace for example. That doesn't make it right and as leftists/socialists/anarchists etc we can see the reactionary ideas that influence these behaviours. But the fact that they are so prevalent in society mean that for many people they can seem normal and trivial. We've probably all had the experience in the workplace when we've objected to some run of the mill reactionary stuff like a fellow male co-worker referring to a female co-worker as a cunt behind her back or fellas reading page 3 or people blaming immigrants for the housing shortage etc and been greeted with puzzled stares and mutters of 'looney left'.
That doesn't mean we shouldn't challenge reactionary ideas but it does demonstrate that tackling them is about more than just being seen to take a hard line against them. If that were the case our friends in the SWP and FRFI would have rooted out racsim and sexism a long time ago with the methods they learned from the Duke of Wellington in Blackadder ('Shout, shout and shout again').
The vibe I'm getting here is that Steve Hedley (or anyone who displays behaviour that can be judged as sexist, no matter what the context) should be made an example of for public policy reasons.
I'm not sure how effective that would actually be. Surely it's better to see if the behaviour can be changed first with discussion? After all if we can't persuade folk who are leaders in the labour movement without a big stick what hope do we have for the rest of society? Is the big stick going to be the first and last port of call for everybody with any sort of reactionary ideas or behaviour in a future socialist/anarchist society?
As I've said before I think quite a lot of people would think it was disproportionate to lose your job (particularly one folk had elected you to do) for things said in a bust up where neither party behaved particularly well. If the behaviour persists I think a union leadership that had demonstrated it had used all means short of sanction to change the behaviour would get a much more sympathetic hearing from the membership than one that just went straight for the big stick.