i've been a bit disappointed by some of the reactions of people i know in the sp over this i have to say.
There's always the possibility that he's telling the truth
What's been said?
How would the police do that? Steve Hedley hasn't made any complaint to them. All we know is that Caroline Leneghan made a complaint to the police but they chose not to pursue the case although the reasons they chose to not to do so is disputed by the two parties.That'd be quite easy for the police to check, wouldn't it?
That'd be quite easy for the police to check, wouldn't it?
You'd have thought so. And the police apparently did clear him. But this isn't a police statement, it's his statement so we don't know whether the things he says have been seen by the police have been seen by the police, if you get what I mean. I'm just very reluctant to jump to any kind of conclusions on this.
Exactly. The leather elbow patches might be weeping but no-one else gives a toss.
I wouldn't go quite that far, leyton96. Neither of those bodies presumably looked into that issue. They looked into the allegations against Steve Hedley, in the case of the police deciding not to prosecute and in the case of the RMT apparently coming to the conclusion that he had no case to answer. That's not quite the same as either necessarily deciding in favour of his counter-allegations. As people with no knowledge of the situation outside of the public statements of the two individuals and the decisions of the police and RMT, we should be very careful about assuming things.
A decision not to pursue allegations against one party (in this case by two investigating bodies) isn't the same as a decision that allegations against the other party are true. Those would have to be investigated separately and appropriately before anyone can assume their accuracy.
You have misunderstood me. I made no claim as to the truth of Caroline or Steve's claims. I think that is pretty clear from what I wrote. I simply pointed out that Steve Hedley claims he has presented evidence of abuse to both the police and the RMT and as far as we know, neither body found flaws in what was presented.
You shouldn't in response to a rape allegation no. That needs treating with the utmost seriousness on simple questions of fact. But when people are making wider arguments, which they have been, that all relationships between young women and older men are oppressive and predatory it is worth pointing out that not all young people are sexually passive or immature. What wasn't helpful was illustrating the point with a picture which lets people claim you're dodgy. I don't often agree with pickman but when the picture ain't really work safe you need to think twice about the impression you're creating.Why make or reinforce a point about young people's sexuality in the context of a rape allegation?
You shouldn't in response to a rape allegation no. That needs treating with the utmost seriousness on simple questions of fact. But when people are making wider arguments, which they have been, that all relationships between young women and older men are oppressive and predatory it is worth pointing out that not all young people are sexually passive or immature. What wasn't helpful was illustrating the point with a picture which leaves you open to the claim that you're a perv. I don't often agree with pickman but when the picture ain't really work safe you need to think twice about the impression you're creating.
Many were but at times the argument did stray into the all such relationships territory. Some relationships are definitely inappropriate, that I agree with.People weren't making the argument that "all relationships between young women and older men are oppressive and predatory". They were making an argument about power dynamics and the potential to abuse the power inherent in such relationships.
Many were but at times the argument did stray into the all such relationships territory. Some relationships are definitely inappropriate, that I agree with.
People weren't making the argument that "all relationships between young women and older men are oppressive and predatory". They were making an argument about power dynamics and the potential to abuse the power inherent in such relationships.
It's possible to express sexist views AND be a victim of DV of course. But yes, it's a standing point about tolerance of that kind of Facebook behaviour by his employer.
twat.hopefully that's enough of a distraction to keep some of the more obnoxious ones away from important adult things...
Exactly. RMP3, as seems the way he is, was totally disingenuous... ...RMP3 you appear to be getting several cases mixed up.
Apologies, yes you did take care to keep them separate. But if his Facebook behaviour is typical, it can be quite easy to regard his statement with a pinch of salt. I just thought it worth making the point.I hope my post wasn't in any way conflating the two, it certainly wasn't meant to. I don't want to comment on the allegations about Steve Hedley for various reasons.
The facebook comments are totally seperate and I think they are fair enough to comment on.
twat.