nino_savatte said:
As has been indicated above by myself and other posters, the Orthodoxy of all the main religions regard women as second class. Whatever the interpolation or extrapolation, the fact remains that within the patriarchy of organised (surely a contradiction in terms) religion, women are seen as the bearers of children and homemakers. Whereas machismo is celebrated, even revered, female qualities are not held in the same high regard. This is a serious problem, since we tend to celebrate destruction and savagery but not nuturing and care for others (those qualities traditionally associated with females). Islam is no exception in this regard.
nah nino, not at all.
im telling u, Islam recognises the obvious differences between men and women, physically and emotionally but absolutely does not make women second class.
women are homemakers and responsible 4 raising the children because this role is in harmony with their make up, this is without doubt the most important job in the world, its not an insult or relegating them 2 some kind of servant.
men on the other hand r responsible 4 providing 4 their women, be they wives, daughters or mothers, aunts etc.
in Islam men have a lot of responsibility, a lot more than women.
men have a role of mantaining women, responsible 4 their protection and maintenance because this is in harmony with our make up.
we dont believe in women going out 2 work 2 earn, this is a husband or fathers responsibility.
that dont mean a woman cant trade or work, especially if she is in a position where she needs 2, for example a reverted sister with no family, or a sister working in some beneficial organisation.Khadija, the first wife of the Prophet pbuh him was involved in commerce and trade and was very pious and successful.
men and women are absolutely equal, recognising certain obvious differences isnt saying men r better, but men have more responsibilities in this sense.
i like this quote, ive heard it quite a lot but i dunno where its from, but it sums up the relationship between men and women well in Islam
Woman was Created from the rib of a man
she was not made from part of his head to top him
nor was she made from his feet to be trampled on
she was Created out of his side to be equal to him,
under his arm to be protected by him,
and near his heart to be loved
our example is the Prophet pbuh, and he was the best of ppl 2 his wives.
he was gentle, romantic, generous, treated his wives with the utmost respect and honour, and his treatment of all ppl was impeccable.
when he'd pray he cut short the prayer if he heard a baby cry so not 2 upset the mother, this is our example, and what we try 2 emulate as muslims.