You say unfortunately, but there is some truth behind it. The Europeans were kicked out (by forces led by local elites of European descent!) and as soon as they were gone, the US stepped in to meddle and control. I'd agree that the official stories told of independence are wildly one-sided and ahistorical, but the neo-colonialist meddling of the US in Latin American affairs is historical enough.
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And nowhere has that been more keenly felt than in Cuba, clearly, right back to their wars of independence, when Martí warned against the danger from the north.