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Is this woman a transphobe?

trans identification (as opposed to trans rights) is one of the new 'religions' where both sides are stating their view is the absolute truth and that any disagreement with their position is the blackest of heresies with everybody claiming the mantle of oppression. It's a horrible subject for debate because there is no real common ground.
No this woman isn't a transphobe or a TERF, she isn't calling for them to be persecuted, she is just stating her belief that having a cock makes you a man and having a fanny makes you a woman and no matter how hard you believe otherwise you can't acttually change that. I thnk the vast majority of the population (and at the risk of being also labelled a transphobe that includes me) ascribe to that view but the majority of the population (definitely including me) also subscribe to the view that transgenders should be allowed to live out their lives in peace free from persecution and ridicule.
There does seem to be an element amongst the trans rights movement that seems to be taking the view that shouting down anyone who suggests their views are not the absolute truth will make them the absolute truth, which is undoubtably backfiring.

Sex is a construct really? So the reason I have never gotten pregnant is that I have never believed hard enough?
You do not seem to understand the meaning of "construct".
 
I believe in biological reality and do not subscribe to the notion of gender identity especially when it damages women and girls - the oppression of women is based on biology not gender identity and this movement is seeking to remove not only every protection women and girls have but to redefine what it means to be female.”

Thanks. :thumbs:
 
Nah, it’s a pattern on ‘the left’.

Safer spaces! (away from ‘hateful’ women and Jews)
I really, really don't think this is a productive route to go down, but if you really want to go there, then I don't think the "gender-critical" side comes out looking particular great either:
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So being trans is holding certain beliefs or having certain knowledge about yourself?

On the whole breakdown of what "being trans" means at every level - my best answer is... I don't know.
25 years ago there was a lot of discussion around gay people - are we talking about sexual "preference", which sounds voluntary, or are we talking about being "born this way", which removed a lot of angles of stigma but created some other problems etc. etc.

It's fine to not have a fully consistent model of what it means. We still have a lot of uncertainty about homosexuality but have come to accept it a lot better in the face of that.

I do wonder whether people would still be banging on about "gay genes" and that sort of stuff if Twitter had been around 30 years ago, though.
 
The claim that transwomen are not women suggests that it is moral to treat trans women negatively differently from the women. This equivalent to people who claim that people from other protected groups can also be negatively treated. The law on treatment of trans people is blind to biology. A trans woman has all the rights (almost) of a cis woman.
 
Unless they have shared the specifics of their suspension notification, you don't know what got someone banned from Twitter. Even if they had, you don't know that it isn't a totting up ban.

Then, this:
Try that line with any other form of discrimination.

Given that opening gambit, I haven't attempted to read any further.
What about people being accused of being racist towards white people?
 
You do not seem to understand the meaning of "construct".
What do you define as a construct? I look down and I have a cock and a couple of balls, I was too young to remember but pretty sure I was born with them, I was present when all my children were born so I know my son was and my daughters weren't. I believe I have a son and three daughters however if you can given me a definition that makes me doubt that well I would be fascinated to read it as I am sure would they. Sorry kiddo you're really a boy my bad for being wrong all this time, Youngest would have been called Patrick if she had been a boy so I'm sure she would be thrilled if I call her that from now on.
But again, how do people know who to be sexist against and who to not be sexist against?
Because one was using a male name and one was using a female name and the tosser at the other end was leaping to false conclusions based on a pre-conceived notion that women are less capable than men in doing certain jobs. This is an indefensible attitude but it is a dying one no matter how firmly some people might cling to it. How many men these days would say "Women Shouldn't Have the Vote" or "Married Women Shouldn't Work" and not get laughed at. "Women Aren't Good at Certain Jobs" is a view that is a bit more persistent but it's on its way out no matter what a few reprobates think.
My middle daughter decided she wanted to be a nurse when she was about 12 or 13 but when she applied to the School of Nursing, her boyfriend at the time (who up until then I had thought was OK) objected on the grounds that he didn't want to be with a girl better educated than him.
I was frankly fucking amazed than any young man could have that opinion in 2012 so I'm not debating that dumbass attitude still exists because it does but it is now a minority view and will be a dead one long before this century is half over.
As for my daughter's ex-boyfriend he got his wish anyway he wasn't with a better educated girl within about a week of spouting that crap.
 
What do you define as a construct? I look down and I have a cock and a couple of balls
What about trans people who've had surgery?
Because one was using a male name and one was using a female name.
Exactly. How people "read" you - the social, gendered stuff - determines how you get treated, even though it doesn't change your physical biology.
 
What do you define as a construct? I look down and I have a cock and a couple of balls, I was too young to remember but pretty sure I was born with them, I was present when all my children were born so I know my son was and my daughters weren't. I believe I have a son and three daughters however if you can given me a definition that makes me doubt that well I would be fascinated to read it as I am sure would they. Sorry kiddo you're really a boy my bad for being wrong all this time, Youngest would have been called Patrick if she had been a boy so I'm sure she would be thrilled if I call her that from now on.
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Absence or presence of a penis is a fact. Interpreting that as sign of biological sex is a construct.
 
My middle daughter decided she wanted to be a nurse when she was about 12 or 13 but when she applied to the School of Nursing, her boyfriend at the time (who up until then I had thought was OK) objected on the grounds that he didn't want to be with a girl better educated than him.
I was frankly fucking amazed than any young man could have that opinion in 2012 so I'm not debating that dumbass attitude still exists because it does but it is now a minority view and will be a dead one long before this century is half over.

I wouldn't bet on that, I thought that would be true in my generation and it isn't. It's not just your daughter's ex being a jerk, it's his feeling that he is less of a man if he is not the main earner, that he is being feminised into an inferior role. To go round trumpeting this view makes you a jerk, but just to feel it and not know exactly why you feel it, or to not feel it consciously but just find that you "don't think my girlfriend should have a higher education level than me" and not even really know why you feel that - that is much more common, it's massively widespread still. And it's clearly rooted in a patriarchal idea that a man's (gender) role is to earn money, a woman's is to fit in with what the man needs. Men are supposed to flash the cash in the pub, women count the pennies. When is that going to change? When will most men feel happy letting women buy them a drink or pay for a meal etc? I think we've a long way to go.
 
Exactly. How people "read" you - the social, gendered stuff - determines how you get treated, even though it doesn't change your physical biology.

This all leads off into its own worm-hole about "passing" and "passing privilege" and then, indirectly to giving puberty blockers to pre-pubescent children who are gender non-conforming and being told the only explanation for that is they are trans, when they should be given options - including being gender non-conforming
 
What about trans people who've had surgery?
Then they are still male but if they want to be viewed as and treated as female then personally I'm cool with that. In fact most of the time even if they haven't had surgery it doesn't really matter does it? Names and gender pronouns are just labels and the idea of certain types of clothing being only for men/women is basically just daft.
Absence or presence of a penis is a fact. Interpreting that as sign of biological sex is a construct.
0/10 Sorry but that's pathetic
 
I wouldn't bet on that, I thought that would be true in my generation and it isn't. It's not just your daughter's ex being a jerk, it's his feeling that he is less of a man if he is not the main earner, that he is being feminised into an inferior role. To go round trumpeting this view makes you a jerk, but just to feel it and not know exactly why you feel it, or to not feel it consciously but just find that you "don't think my girlfriend should have a higher education level than me" and not even really know why you feel that - that is much more common, it's massively widespread still. And it's clearly rooted in a patriarchal idea that a man's (gender) role is to earn money, a woman's is to fit in with what the man needs. Men are supposed to flash the cash in the pub, women count the pennies. When is that going to change? When will most men feel happy letting women buy them a drink or pay for a meal etc? I think we've a long way to go.
For what it's worth, I agree with this post 100%.
indirectly to giving puberty blockers to pre-pubescent children who are gender non-conforming and being told the only explanation for that is they are trans, when they should be given options - including being gender non-conforming
I'm not convinced that happens, it's my understanding that the general shift in acceptance of trans stuff has precisely opened up more space for kids to be given options, including being GNC. If people are really going around telling kids that they must be trans, are they telling them that they have to be "binary" trans people, or do they at least give them the option of maybe being non-binary?
 
Then they are still male but if they want to be viewed as and treated as female then personally I'm cool with that. In fact most of the time even if they haven't had surgery it doesn't really matter does it? Names and gender pronouns are just labels and the idea of certain types of clothing being only for men/women is basically just daft.

0/10 Sorry but that's pathetic
I see you have no interest in using words correctly. Or learning new information. That makes debate rather pointless.

There is a difference between a fact and a construct. Your not understanding that will make it difficult for you to gain anything from further debate.

I will give you a specific example. Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome results in babies bring born with no penis, and with a vaginal canal. They do not develop testes but have internal gonads. They usually do not develop male pattern hirsuteness.

Yet they have a Y chromosome.

Before we understood chromosomes they lived their lives as females.

Absence of a penis defined their sex at birth.
 
This all leads off into its own worm-hole about "passing" and "passing privilege" and then, indirectly to giving puberty blockers to pre-pubescent children who are gender non-conforming and being told the only explanation for that is they are trans, when they should be given options - including being gender non-conforming
Why do you refer to it as a worm hole? What evidence do you have that such behaviour is not correct?
 
Just as a note regarding biological sex, I'd be perfectly happy for there to be more classifications, socially speaking.
We already kind of think of "natal sex", "legal sex" (what it says on your passport etc.) and "lived sex", even though we don't use those terms necessarily.

Having studied biology, I'm mostly wary of messing with accepted non-judgmental classifications. When evolution comes into the picture, sex can appear like a bit of a puzzle at first - even with parthenogenetic females you are basically rendering a whole bunch of organisms unable to reproduce by themselves. In this sense I'm considering sex to relate to "those individuals you can exchange genetic material with in order to produce fertile offspring" (the infertile are of tangential relevance to evolution in this case) - and those are the ones considered a different sex to you (some organisms can have more than two sexes, and producing fertile offspring means copping off with any sex other than your own).

I don't agree with the weaponised usage of biological sex definitions, and I don't think any other definitions need be seen as "lesser". We know the history of how marriage came about but most of us don't view gay marriage as a lesser thing.
 
Absence or presence of a penis is a fact. Interpreting that as sign of biological sex is a construct.
Not really. It might conceivably turn out to be wrong, but we're back to reproductive sex again (and no definition of biological sex can avoid reproduction). So if it turns out that the baby with a penis isn't actually developing to reproduce in the 'male' way, it may be that the interpretation of the presence of a penis was wrong, but generally speaking, 'having a penis' is quite a reliable indicator, and sadly if the interpretation is wrong, that's an indication of a developmental disorder.

This is where I do have an issue with some of the language that is coming in for these things - in this instance, 'assigned male/female at birth'. What exactly are we talking about there if not sex? But the word 'assign' has connotations of an active role on the part of the assigner, as if it could have been done differently. So later, you can say 'I was assigned male/female at birth, but I'm not really'. I think that misunderstands what is done at birth tbh, and in many instances, it goes as far as suggesting that it was the gender that was being assigned, or as co-op has been saying, that sex is the construct and gender the essential to being, so you can only guess at the essential bit at birth as it only comes out much later.

There is a great deal of muddle over the difference between sex and gender - increasingly so, it seems to me, as I regularly see the word 'gender' used now when what is actually meant is 'sex'. I suspect that people don't really like thinking so hard about it each time so just plump for a default choice, which used to be 'sex' and is now 'gender'. But I see people getting it wrong who really shouldn't be getting it wrong, including science writers. We're in danger here of replacing the old obnoxious, and mostly wrong, sex essentialism with an equally objectionable, and wrong, gender essentialism.
 
This all leads off into its own worm-hole about "passing" and "passing privilege" and then, indirectly to giving puberty blockers to pre-pubescent children who are gender non-conforming and being told the only explanation for that is they are trans, when they should be given options - including being gender non-conforming

Pre-pubescent children are being denied the option to NOT have puberty blockers? Is that really true? Is this from the Abigail Shrier book?

This is why I don't think a lot of this has nothing to do with feminism. It's just fear mongering.
 
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