Good post.
Notice you said you have mixed race kid.
That's something that has not been touched on here.
Someone I know has written PHD on that. Been published by Routledge. I haven't read it. I know them and they are ok so I reckon its worth a go. Price so far has put me off.
By examining Black mixed-race identities in the city through a series of historical vantage points, Making Mixed Race provides in-depth insights into the geographical and historical contexts that shape the possibilities and constraints for identifications. Whilst popular representations of...
www.routledge.com
I've met a lot of people who are mixed race. It's not that unusual in London. Some people have quite complicated backgrounds that go outside the Black / White categorisation.
Post war, despite labour shortage, immigration to here by Black people in Empire was discouraged due to fear of mixing of races.
A lot of discussion of people's concerns is about large influx of people who are different. Either culturally or by colour.
Not a lot has been done about the mixing that inevitably took place when immigration happened.
Perhaps their is another history ( as this book looks like it does using interviews with people). Instead of looking at how the other was finally or partially accepted look at how people mixed and built lives around that.
It's not something that gets treated well on either side imo
IMO there are those in Black community who subscribe to the White Supremacy line. All culture came from Africa, if your Black your Black and mixed raced relationships never work. A mirror image of the white racist idea that what is termed miscegenation should not be allowed as it weakens the white race.
To add talking to a Black British person I know and he said that people from Carribbeans often have mixed backgrounds. He had African and Indian background as part of his family were descended from African slaves and part from Indian indentured workers.
This idea of us and the other who come here is in itself not that straightforward concept.