I dunno - If it was me, I would probably just assume you both have it/will get it (that kind of being the point of the 14 days) rather than put loads of energy into
completely isolating yourselves from each other within the household because it's hard enough as it is. My son is in his room 95% of the time anyway
and my daughter a fair, bit but she's as likely to be with me as not and I'm not sure I could/would insist she wasn't.
However, within that, it's still possible to continue with all the usual, sensible precautions - handwashing, using and disposing of tissues, keeping things as clean as possible (erm...that's another of my outstanding jobs
) and of course you don't have to be wrapped round each other all the time either!
But also, what would make you more
comfortable? Better able to cope with the whole thing?
The NHS stuff is confusing because obvs no one is going to view a cough that started in Dec as NEW but the temperature rise was very recent, however brief
and you have some ill-y symptoms, too - and if your grandma is over 70 - or really just
anyway, for now - that does seem like a bonkers idea.
It does sound like the lockdown stuff may be ramped up soon anyway (precisely because people
aren't getting it) but can you have any sort of a convo with her where you just really emphasise that it's not a time to take any risks, that it's serious and that we do all need to make changes for a time - that it's really and truly about the risks to people beyond ourselves and that we all have to take responsibility for that as far as we can.
It is very difficult cos it's all so different - and a lot of it involves us being far more direct and less polite than we're maybe used to be being, or feeling even more responsible and guilty for our own actions - which is not wrong but can defo add to the anxiety - so it's challenging on all sorts of levels, beyond the huge worries about health and...well, life and death.
It's just way, way out of our experience.
I'm trying to approach this bit of time as a rest, really. Because I'm ill and I'm tired and because everything is so upside down and because for now, two weeks is perfectly doable. There's no ignoring what's going on all around us, everywhere - but at these points that you can't do anything but sit tight and wait, then that's simply just what you need to do. xxxx