Seems to me that there are arguments that happen elsewhere, on twitter say, and someone says something here that sounds a bit similar and its as though that statement then changes from a statement made in the context of what we know about that poster and is instead seen in the context of the misogynistic or phobic or racist argument made elsewhere, as though that particular point is logically part of an argument, as if its code for something, that is unmistakeably bigoted, and an example of privilege.
I've had this experience more and more on urban over the past year or 2, and I'm a fairly politically thoughtful person, and I end up thinking, oh, I've said something wrong there, looks like what I've said there is some trope I'm not even aware of. So much potential for tripping up.
