Wookey
Muppet is not a slur
When I watch the video of the Sky newspaper review, it's very clear to me that Hartley-Brewer DID acknowledge the homophobic nature of the attack, several times.
It's also clear that Owen was distressed and upset, and was not bringing his best game to the segment. I would have preferred him to have taken a breath and carry on debating. (Actually, I'd have preferred him to have had a bath and an early night and give himself a break from the commentariat bullshit on Sky).
I understand why he walked; because he perceived that his voice was being contradicted by two non-gay people. But his exit left no gay voice on the panel, which is really regrettable.
I have also in the past used the argument "You don't understand this because you aren't gay...." which even at the time felt to me like a weak and tergiversational way to win an argument, and a very effective way of shutting down anyone who doesn't completely reflect what you believe from a gay perspective. There isn't any such thing as a single gay perspective though, just personal perspectives made by gay people.
By Monday, Owen should have had time to reflect, and perhaps refocus the story back on the crime, the victims and the issues at hand, rather than repeat the unfair and inaccurate accusation towards two people of trying to whitewash the homophobic nature of the attacks.
I love the guy dearly, currently really enjoying (right word?!) his book The Establishment And How They Get Away With It. But Julia HB makes the most important point - no-one should be telling her what to say, or how to say it. That's not what our movement should be about.
It's also clear that Owen was distressed and upset, and was not bringing his best game to the segment. I would have preferred him to have taken a breath and carry on debating. (Actually, I'd have preferred him to have had a bath and an early night and give himself a break from the commentariat bullshit on Sky).
I understand why he walked; because he perceived that his voice was being contradicted by two non-gay people. But his exit left no gay voice on the panel, which is really regrettable.
I have also in the past used the argument "You don't understand this because you aren't gay...." which even at the time felt to me like a weak and tergiversational way to win an argument, and a very effective way of shutting down anyone who doesn't completely reflect what you believe from a gay perspective. There isn't any such thing as a single gay perspective though, just personal perspectives made by gay people.
By Monday, Owen should have had time to reflect, and perhaps refocus the story back on the crime, the victims and the issues at hand, rather than repeat the unfair and inaccurate accusation towards two people of trying to whitewash the homophobic nature of the attacks.
I love the guy dearly, currently really enjoying (right word?!) his book The Establishment And How They Get Away With It. But Julia HB makes the most important point - no-one should be telling her what to say, or how to say it. That's not what our movement should be about.