existentialist
Tired and unemotional
Not specifically in regard to sexual abuse, but one point I remember being made quite forcibly in my NSPCC training is that, while poverty is probably a factor in abuse, "middle class" abuse is a lot more prevalent that popular perception would have it.Almost 40% of the population experience poverty (officially described at the time of the Bulger murder as existing on less than 60% of the average household income). Roughly half of those people (or 20% of the population) at that time would have been classed as being in severe poverty, and yet only a vanishingly small number of children in those circumstances turn to violent crime, let alone murder. We can't pick out any single factor and say "it was that, that is what made them do it", because the reality is that Bulger was a victim of two boys who were themselves victims of a combination of circumstances, environmental factors and developmental issues that went far beyond poverty and its effects.
As you move up the wealth spectrum, so the social capital and resources to be able to fend off suspicions of abusing increase, the logical conclusion being someone like Savile who was able to bring his celebrity, wealth (through threats of legal action - not something available to the typical family in poverty), and "connections" to bear to such an extent that his abusing could remain an open secret until his death.
I recall a case study from that training of a child who was taken to hospital from school with severe bruising to his lower back, buttocks, and legs. On examination, he was found to have been beaten to the point of causing quite serious injury. A child protection issue was raised, and it emerged that his father (ETA: who, it emerged, had dished out the beating) was a surgeon at the very same hospital, and enormous pressure was put on the hospital staff to drop the matter. Given that the NSPCC present it as a case study, he clearly wasn't successful, but there will be a lot of cases where, when a suspicion is raised, the reaction will be "What, Councillor Jones? Abusing his kids? Not him, he does so much wonderful work for charity!". And it does happen. It's one of the reasons John Owen (Clwych Inquiry) was able to abuse for so long - people could not face the idea that this charismatic, successful drama teacher would be abusing his pupils.
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