existentialist
Tired and unemotional
Yeah, that was a massive generalisation on my part, TBF. The response of victims of abuse will be as diverse as the victims themselves. And it may be that the victims that I come into contact with are a self-selecting group who are more likely to favour a particular goal. And it wasn't revenge in my case...but I completely appreciate the desire of some victims to assert something other than powerlessness upon their persecutor.Not sure for me. I wanted revenge myself.
Whatever, the one thing that doesn't change is that this - alleged - perpetrator is going to enormous, and convoluted, lengths to avoid even any semblance of due process...and that's probably common to most child sex abusers.