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Don't buy your thesis at all. And don't agree even that the thing it attempts to explain has happened. People can show a marked lack of empathy for those they do not identify with as fellow human beings. That thread fl linked to is an example of that. But that's no more true now than it was in the past, and if anything most people can probably identify with more other people now than at times in the past.

So you think people are becoming more emphatic? You do not acknowledge the death of affect? You perceive no coarsening of public discourse? You don't find the cult of celebrity a teeny bit disturbing?

If all that is true, you must live on the moon.
 
sometimes i go through phases where i can't read through a paper without getting all emotional about one story or another... usually it is involving total unknown people, occasionally it happens to be someone famous. sometimes i get emotional over something in a film or book, and that is just FICTION! I don't think that makes me (all that) emotionally stunted.... or emotionally well-developed either. it is just a thing that humans have always done, otherwise why would tragic theatre and stuff exist.
 
So you think people are becoming more emphatic? You do not acknowledge the death of affect? You perceive no coarsening of public discourse? You don't find the cult of celebrity a teeny bit disturbing?

If all that is true, you must live on the moon.
I do not acknowledge the death of affect, no. Yes, I do dislike the cult of celebrity, and yes I find it disturbing sometimes, although it's something I happily ignore most of the time. Like when Diana died - I imposed a total media blackout on myself for a couple of weeks. Job done.
 
Maybe you're just being willfully obtuse then. It's quite simple: there's nothing wrong with using strong terms to describe pernicious delusions.

There is when they're aimed at the victims of the pernicious capitalist process. And what's with all that bullshit about having licence to do so?
 
I do not acknowledge the death of affect, no. Yes, I do dislike the cult of celebrity, and yes I find it disturbing sometimes, although it's something I happily ignore most of the time. Like when Diana died - I imposed a total media blackout on myself for a couple of weeks. Job done.
We were away when Michael Jackson carked it - perfect. I heard one song of his when I happened to be in a paper shop somewhere and that was it. I was in Italy, working, the day after Diana died, it was crazy, we had people offering us condolences and hugging us, I mean, WTF?, infact even more WTF when you consider I was the only Brit - my colleagues were German and Polish. Then we watched the funeral in our hotel room, hammered on wine and my German colleague made up hilarious alternate lyrics to Eltons candle in the wind.
 
We were away when Michael Jackson carked it - perfect. I heard one song of his when I happened to be in a paper shop somewhere and that was it. I was in Italy, working, the day after Diana died, it was crazy, we had people offering us condolences and hugging us, I mean, WTF?, infact even more WTF when you consider I was the only Brit - my colleagues were German and Polish. Then we watched the funeral in our hotel room, hammered on wine and my German colleague made up hilarious alternate lyrics to Eltons candle in the wind.

The one that mystified me was the Queen Mum. I was working in the Festival Hall at the time, and the end of the queue to file past her body (in Westminster Abbey, I think) was just outside. The wait was something like ten or twelve hours, and there were whole families there with young kids. Very, very, very odd.

I got lots of reading done when Diana died. It was quite good for me.
 
So, Beatlemania, what was that?

Emperor worship in Japan, what was that?

There have been versions of celebrity-worship in different times and places. Sorry phil, but the more I think about your theory, the more ridiculous it becomes.
 
All I would say to you is this. Watch people who express empathy for celebrities very closely. Watch how they treat the people in their real lives. Keep an eye on their political and social opinions too. And for God's sake don't trust them.

Have you told this to the people who publish the DSM?
 
<snip> Sorry phil, but the more I think about your theory, the more ridiculous it becomes.
*shrug* It's just another variation on his favourite metatheme - the world's going to Hell in a handcart. This in spite of even the Ancient Greeks being certain that each generation was worse and that the world was in decline.

For that theory to be hold water now, either we've been falling almost forever or the days of homo erectus were paradisical.
 
I remember when Di died and Dodi died (dey did doh, didn't dey).

me and Missus LiamO were down in Dublin for an all-Ireland semi-final (Mayo Vs Offally).

We were staying in a wee B&b and that morning the landlady, a little old kerry woman, came in with the breakfast saying 'Isn't it terrible news?'
'What'
'Diana is dead'
'Diana who?'
'Princess Diana. I'll bring in the radio so ye can listen to it all'.

She duly did so and RTÉ was wall to wall on how di died and dodi died (dey did doh, didn't dee?).

Two minutes later she landed in with the toast and was absolutely disgusted that I had changed to some daft Country station.
 
Frances Lengel said:
These people who claim to be upset to the point of crying real tears over the death of someone who's never even heard of them - How are they going to cope when their goldfish dies?

Tell you what though - On this thread
http://www.urban75.net/forums/threa...mpire-gets-off-possessing-52g-of-coke.185921/

someone's mother dies through drugs but unlike with Pickles the urban consensus seems to be that tetrabird doesn't deserve sympathy coz she was rich through inherited wealth. I'm struggling to see the difference, me.

The thread begins with people complaining that she got off a (pretty serious) drug charge because of her social standing. Let's not distort things now.
 
I was making no comment about how the thread started, I was merely comparing the differing reactions to the two deaths.
 
Going back to the thread topic....I'm quite shocked the verdict is an overdose. A tragic accident. And while she was obviously crazy to take gear when she has kids, I won't condemn her...at the end of the day, a young woman has died, leaving many loved ones behind her. :(
about as tragic as it comes. Just like a mate of mine back in the 90s, off the gear for ages due to having a little kid to be looking after, then sneaks off for his first hit in months and must have forgotten about having no tolerance to it or something.:(
 
I remember when Di died and Dodi died (dey did doh, didn't dey).

me and Missus LiamO were down in Dublin for an all-Ireland semi-final (Mayo Vs Offally).

We were staying in a wee B&b and that morning the landlady, a little old kerry woman, came in with the breakfast saying 'Isn't it terrible news?'
'What'
'Diana is dead'
'Diana who?'
'Princess Diana. I'll bring in the radio so ye can listen to it all'.

She duly did so and RTÉ was wall to wall on how di died and dodi died (dey did doh, didn't dee?).

Two minutes later she landed in with the toast and was absolutely disgusted that I had changed to some daft Country station.

I was in New York City, around 3am, listening to WBAI, a black ultra-radical radio station. Suddenly the announcer goes: "Weeell now, seems we've just heard that Diana of England is dead... that's right, dead... but nobody here cares about that, so here's some more Public Enemy...."

That's the way to do it.
 
I was in New York City, around 3am, listening to WBAI, a black ultra-radical radio station. Suddenly the announcer goes: "Weeell now, seems we've just heard that Diana of England is dead... that's right, dead... but nobody here cares about that, so here's some more Public Enemy...."

That's the way to do it.
i thought you said above "all i'm going to say is ..." yet here you are showing that to be er misleading.
 
So, Beatlemania, what was that?

Emperor worship in Japan, what was that?

There have been versions of celebrity-worship in different times and places. Sorry phil, but the more I think about your theory, the more ridiculous it becomes.

The ubiquity of the phenomenon confirms my thesis, as I would have thought obvious.
 
Well you were wrong, weren't you? Again. Read more slowly perhaps?
it's not my reading that's at fault but your sorry penchant for posting and posting on a subject while under the misapprehension that your views are somehow privileged. so when it looks like your stream of piss is terminated, you can't imagine the feeling of relief people feel.
 
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