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Is Trump's personality a result of self-loathing?

It’s just a vodka and orange juice. I poured hundreds as a barman and was never asked for a screwdriver.

I always just said "vodka and orange" in this country (when i used to drink them). I remember the confused look i got in las vegas when i said that "What you mean a screwdriver?".
 
Opposite to his grandiosity being based in trauma, shame and fear?
What trauma has Trump ever suffered? What does he have to fear? Is he capable of shame? I reckon he's the same personality-type as Jeffrey Archer or Winston Churchill: pathological ambition combined with a lack of self-awareness so total as to border on autism. Very few people but Trump could have withstood the kind of media savaging he's suffered over the past 6 years, and it shows a kind of insanely stubborn strength you must admit. He's simply incapable of seeing himself as others see him.
 
I imagine he works quite hard and long hours. And there's nobody come through with a more popular and plausible leadership pitch.

I really doubt he works at all. Reagan was the same. The mystery is why they haven't pulled anyone else out of the hat yet, and actually I still think they might draft Gavin Gruesome.
 
I really doubt he works at all. Reagan was the same. The mystery is why they haven't pulled anyone else out of the hat yet, and act
At all? You think he's warmed up, shoved in front of a tele promter then goes and plays in the sand pit?
 
At all? You think he's warmed up, shoved in front of a tele promter then goes and plays in the sand pit?

Pretty much. Watch him in his unguarded moments, just before or after speeches, or when he thinks the camera isn't looking. I've known old people like him before, he's away with the fairies. Sometimes it's quite revealing, like here:

 
I thought he was very relaxed and statesman like. Unfortunately it was to someone who they shouldn't be seeking favour with, but do. There's much to critisise on a more relevant thread on that. Why he made the sign of the cross I don't know. Pretty low in the supposed 'gaffe' spectrum these guys are riddled with in their formal mutual arse-kissing-for-the-cameras mode.
 
I thought he was very relaxed and statesman like. Unfortunately it was to someone who they shouldn't be seeking favour with, but do. There's much to critisise on a more relevant thread on that. Why he made the sign of the cross I don't know. Pretty low in the supposed 'gaffe' spectrum these guys are riddled with in their formal mutual arse-kissing-for-the-cameras mode.

Biden was raised Catholic and he seems to still be a member of the faith. I've seen them use the sign of the cross as a way of acknowledging/wishes for good health for an old friend. Or, as a quick way to say "from your lips to god's ear" kinda thing.
 
What trauma has Trump ever suffered? What does he have to fear? Is he capable of shame?

His niece Mary once wrote about an incident in his childhood when her father dumped a plate of mashed potato over his head at dinner in order to stop him bullying/tormenting their younger brother.

The shame/humiliation he suffered that day appears to have entered Trump-family lore as a pivotal moment in the formation of his later personality. It also happened at the time when Donald was not the golden-boy. As the eldest, it was her father Fred Jr who was assumed to be the heir-apparent until he showed no desire to join the family business. Which led to his virtual exclusion and having to get a real job until he died from drink-related illness years later.

I'd also suggest that his greatest fear is one common to many with severe narcissistic traits - that of being shown-up for what he is and he will do/encourage anything that deflects from or transfers any responsibility/accountability on to absolutely anyone else.
 
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Every Trump voter I ever spoke to agreed there are significant problems with him as a person, but they definitely actively support him.

Some of them also see it as humanising him in some way - Most notably/extremely the whole quasi-religious "Son of Man" shit.
 
His niece Mary once wrote about an incident in his childhood when her father dumped a plate of mashed potato over his head at dinner in order to stop him bullying/tormenting their younger brother.

Hence the desperate measures this troubled man pursues to recreate the appearance of that traumatic moment, with bouffant comb overs and hairspray and dyes in various shades of mashed potato yellow.
 
Hence the desperate measures this troubled man pursues to recreate the appearance of that traumatic moment, with bouffant comb overs and hairspray and dyes in various shades of mashed potato yellow.
And he only eats burgers and chips. I think you're onto something here ...
 
I don't doubt that Trump's personality is the result of self-loathing on some level.

But it scarcely matters either way. Why do so many people vote for him? That's the more important, interesting and difficult question.

Not just him of course. Milei, Bolsonaro. It seems like an act of self harm to vote for people like them who will work against your interests, yet people do it in their tens of millions.
 
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