Nancy_Winks
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You have the rare ability to speak the truth about how things were and felt and you do it with courage and it shines through. It makes people care for you and only want the very best for you xx
I honestly don't know tbh.What about in the workplace, though? Has anyone ever argued that an employer needs to accommodate their alcoholism? I also tend to think disabled implies to many people a bit of "I can't do anything about my condition". Many would be reluctant to consider something a disability if they thought the sufferer could do something about it, I guess similar to the "Is alcoholism a disease?" debate. Just some random ideas running through my head...
You have a beautiful gob xI'm just a gobshite.
Thanks all. The gobshite thing... I mean that by nature I'm very verbal: I put everything into words. Everything, all the time. Every thought and feeling is turned into words and spoken (or written). And explaining nebulous stuff clearly is my job, as a teacher... And then also I'm not shy to talk about myself (narcissistic tendencies), so basically, I've had a lot of practice at writing all this shit.You have a beautiful gob x
See I'm the same in terms of being a very verbal person.Thanks all. The gobshite thing... I mean that by nature I'm very verbal: I put everything into words. Everything, all the time. Every thought and feeling is turned into words and spoken (or written). And explaining nebulous stuff clearly is my job, as a teacher... And then also I'm not shy to talk about myself (narcissistic tendencies), so basically, I've had a lot of practice at writing all this shit.
But yeah. Thanks
I'm really poor at talking or writing, so my posts are mainly pictures.See I'm the same in terms of being a very verbal person.
I talk and type a lot.
But the difference is with me it's mostly stuttering nonsense
I spent years on prednisolone...starting at 100mg /day and working my way down to 40mg...(which most gps consider high )
For the first year I stuck rigidly to 1000 cals a day. Lived on salad. No sugar. No salt. No fats as far as possible. It was pure hell. I kept a journal of intake every day. I STILL put on over a stone weight.
There's a problem with undereating too in that the body thinks it's starving so starts storing any fat it can get hold of around your body to protect your internal organs and burn off muscle instead. That's why loads of diets are complete bullshit.
It's very rarely pleasurable, tbh. Or only very fleetingly. Like one or two seconds, every once in a while.
I'm really poor at talking or writing, so my posts are mainly pictures.
All I can say is thank goodness for loquacious lovelies like you and spanglechick
It wasn't undereating that led to my weight gain. It was prednisolone.
But I do understand about the body's reaction to starvation...
I wasn't starving myself though.
I was on a diet to rebuild damaged muscle tissue.
it's hard because you do HAVE to eat something, mostly at least two or three times every single day. The issue is being forced. But sometimes you feel ashamed of eating anything at all.not happening if you have a malnourished frame an upbringing. Ma did everything she could for us but we are still bantam weight rationing victims.
I did wonder though, when you get overweight and if food isn't a comfort but a necessity, do folks think 'Shouldn't be munching this. but. chomp chomp'?
cos I dose myself with bad things all the time and get the guilts. Never with food tho. Just the friggin booze and weed.
it's hard because you do HAVE to eat something, mostly at least two or three times every single day.
Check your employer's policies and procedures. Most of them have some sort of policy outlining how they will deal with substance abuse issues in the workplace.What about in the workplace, though? Has anyone ever argued that an employer needs to accommodate their alcoholism? I also tend to think disabled implies to many people a bit of "I can't do anything about my condition". Many would be reluctant to consider something a disability if they thought the sufferer could do something about it, I guess similar to the "Is alcoholism a disease?" debate. Just some random ideas running through my head...
If obesity is classed as a disability in itself. Then it'd seem that drug and alcohol addiction would qualify too surely.
Just googled the definition. You're disabled under the Equality Act 2010 if you have a physical or mental impairment that has a 'substantial' and 'long-term' negative effect on your ability to do normal daily activities.
Sounds like obesity to me.
Can you imagine the amount of pissing and moaning from reactionary idiots if this translated into the right to use disabled parking spaces?
You can't score enough points in the wca to get ESA from addiction alone, but addiction usually comes with other linked problems (either a cause of addiction or caused by addiction), so with those you can get disability benefits.What I had to fill in my DWP form/book for claiming ESA, there was a whole section for those claiming on the grounds of alcohol and or substance addiction.
I have no idea how this actually works in real life as I don't know anyone who has attempted to claim on those grounds but it must be at least a bit considered a disability to be on the form I guess
Can you imagine the amount of pissing and moaning from reactionary idiots if this translated into the right to use disabled parking spaces?
More encouraged (or ignored) than 'comfort drinking' aka 'self-medicating' anyway.oh yeah 'comfort eating' thats a thing isn't it? and socially encouraged
the answer is sometimes.
Apparently, this is pretty much what the actual judgement says....
That's all true. But suppose you don't have any underlying conditions but eat too much and don't exercise and get obese as a result? I guess then it's a self-inflicted disability, and in that case should employers accomodate such people? Probably not, or at least should demand some changes to the lifestyle.
I would question whether anyone gets to a seriously obese stage without there being something else going on.
Everyone's got something else going on! So what?
Forget for a minute about all the people who have a diminished physical ability to control their weight for whatever reason, and just consider the set of people who eat too much and don't exercise enough of their own volition.
What happens if you make it a formal disability?
Well for one, they get better access to services - you can go and get NHS therapy of all kinds for mental health issues, for example, but who do you go to today to tackle weight in a structured and therapeutic manner? So treating it as a proper condition rather than some of lifestyle tangent is likely to be of benefit.
On the other hand you implicitly reduce the level of self-responsibility, suggesting it's something that merely happens to you rather than something you have a degree of control over. Plus where do the resources to treat it properly as per the above come from?