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Feminism - where are the threads?

Pickman's model said:
This seems something of a giveaway
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JudithB said:
. If you want to call me a man, someone you previously had beef with or any other manner of descriptors, here's the place to do it. I hope that makes everyone feel better.

(Victim, hysterical they're good to go words too)
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When are you going to get over the fact I am a woman and I am not some male person coming here to virtually tug on your penis for lols?

Feminism mean women having concerns of their own that have nothing to do with you except if you are one of the 98% of perpetrators that hurt us. It's that simple. This is not a conspiracy
 
JudithB said:
OK to make it simpler for those at the back.

Do you have the same genitalia as the person who birthed you? If you are intersex (and I apologise to my sister if I am now insensitive) did the tests you had when you were a tiny baby of a day or so old confirm you were male or female?

Did that make the question simpler?
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I see where you're coming from with what it means to be a "female" these days, but knock it off. For the purposes of discussion about womanhood etc it might be reasonable to ask politely if someone was born female or not, but that's it.

That polite request could go down very badly sometimes too, but IMO it shouldn't if the context is gender-specific. I'm fairly sure people most on Urban could cope with someone saying "sorry, but because of the topic, does that mean born female or later identified as female?" without having to use terms like CIS or natal or anything politically loaded. There'd be people in the background in PMs calling you a TERF for bringing it up at all because there are arseholes everywhere but they would be a tiny minority.

(Though I say this having had a couple of people blank me in real life for my supposed TERFdom - and I don't get out much - and a couple of people deleted me online - so it really is fucking divisive and I understand people battening down).
 
One can no longer ask a group of possible men who are obviously or tacitly (through likes) bullying a woman if they are men.

One can no longer name possible sexism if that was what I as a women might feel I am experiencing
 
JudithB said:
OK to make it simpler for those at the back.

Do you have the same genitalia as the person who birthed you? If you are intersex (and I apologise to my sister if I am now insensitive) did the tests you had when you were a tiny baby of a day or so old confirm you were male or female?

Did that make the question simpler?
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You are weird really weird.
 
JudithB said:
I was on twitter and decided to find somewhere I might get to talk feminism with like minded women that wasn't too esoteric but was intelligent and witty. I think the women on here fit that bill
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In case it gets missed in the flurry... I am loving our communion xx
 
JudithB said:
Signal 11
Mr.Bishie
kebabking
ginger_syn
TopCat
Pickman's model
seventh bullet
abstract1

Out of interest are you male or female?
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Those mentioned are either elsewhere engaged and I hope they are having a fabulous night out. Those who so far have engaged can't apparently tell me what they are. The question if too complicated is and as a sister of someone with a DSD (look it up before shouting sex on a spectrum) were you born with the biology that produces ova or the biology that produces spermatoza?
 
ginger_syn said:
No honestly its weird, but since you want to know so badly my kids popped out of my vag the same way i popped out of my mums.
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Then why are you up in my mentions for asking about safeguarding and why there's a 4000% rise in girls transitioning? I cannot believe you want to shout bigot without examining something of what I might be saying?
 
Orang Utan said:
Who accused you of being Firky, JudithB?
I don't think you're a troll BTW.
I have a dick if you think that's pertinent
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And I dont care if you have a dick. It's how you treat women that matters :)
I am thankful you dont think I'm a troll. God only knows why I need to be thankful for that. Women trying to talk about women with women. Who knew it would be so controversial?
 
JudithB said:
Then why are you up in my mentions for asking about safeguarding and why there's a 4000% rise in girls transitioning? I cannot believe you want to shout bigot without examining something of what I might be saying?
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While heavily suggesting you were a liar i did not call you a bigot.
 
Guys, seriously.

It's Saturday night and we've all had a few.

Calm the fuck down.

Here's a box of kittens.

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JudithB said:
Are you disagreeing that we should not look into why there is a 4000% in girls transitioning? And that there are a significant amount of detransitioners?
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I’m not getting into it with you because like others I don’t actually trust you or feel comfortable discussing this with you. I’m not saying you’re a returner or a troll because I have no idea but having read your posts over the last couple of weeks I just feel uneasy and more than a little patronised.

I don’t know why I commented at all but it really pisses me off when people question why women are trans inclusive or challenge whether they are ‘real feminists’ as if some of us are too thick to have realised the peril that awaits or something.
 
ginger_syn said:
Sorry still laughing at your earlier post, this wil keep me going for days.
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And not giving a mention or perhaps a care to the 4000% uprise in young girls transitioning? Yes laugh at me all you want.
There is a massive rise in detransitioners. Why are you concentrating on calling ppl like me bigots and not looking into what is actually happening to children and young adults?
 
Looby said:
I’m not getting into it with you because like others I don’t actually trust you or feel comfortable discussing this with you. I’m not saying you’re a returner or a troll because I have no idea but having read your posts over the last couple of weeks I just feel uneasy and more than a little patronised.

I don’t know why I commented at all but it really pisses me off when people question why women are trans inclusive or challenge whether they are ‘real feminists’ as if some of us are too thick to have realised the peril that awaits or something.
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That's up to you... but while you do that remember that there is something going on with young girls. 4000% uptake. If it were just to do with it being authentic lives I'd expect to see the same in my age group and especially my mother's.

Question me please. I am open to debate.

And at no point, I can guarantee, will I say the rights of trans people or their existance is up for debate.
 
N_igma said:
:hmm::hmm::hmm:

I also think this newbie is a troll. Firky though they are not.
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That'll be why I remember the name. I think I might have been more explicitly accused going forward.

Do you know what is getting to me is no one wants to talk about the children caught up in this.

I'm off to bed now. We're off to a circus skills thing tomorrow. I call disappointed kids because they're talking trapeze acts and we know h&s wont let that happen.

I'd really like to talk about what's happening with girls and transitioning. I'm a mother. My sons have friends who are changing gender and all of them are girls. I'm sorry I feel concerned. And I only say sorry because in the eyes of here I'm a bigot and transphobic apparently. I'm not. I feel very concerned about three teenage girls I know because their parents are torn. It is scary as a parent. Hormones changes girls forever. And we're hearing more about necessitative hystorectomies. It's scary as fuck
 
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Orang Utan said:
We see you now for sure
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Welcome to the bully club Orang Utan.
VIP membership unfortunately has been sold out.
You may be a well known member here but that counts for nothing until you use your powers of patriarchy to burn the witch
I am sure you will fit in well
 
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