I don't think I said she was solely responsible. Obviously she's partly responsible but that wasn't my point in the post you quoted. I was trying to say that it isn't at all true that we can't talk about feminism without talking about trans people, as some were claiming (this is a very effective silencing device by the way). (And the joke is that I wasn't even trying to at the time but she wilfully ignored what I was trying to say.) As evidenced by the fact that we have been doing so since all these threads were started. She came back, it's a matter for debate whether she was baited or not (dunno why everyone is painting her as a victim, wasn't my take on it, but whatever) and now here we are.
I was enjoying the threads until now - I thought we'd done quite a good job of being civil on the whole, despite our differences on lots of things - but now it's become really unpleasant and hostile, and all the potential for interesting conversation seems to be over. So I don't think I'm going to post on this thread any more.
Love you, obviously, Sam and I'll see you elsewhere.