Seems fair. Although I would give a car driver points at least for undue care and attention. If I threw a brick into the road in front of a car I would get fined/charged, no reason why a car driver opening a big metal door into incoming traffic should get better treatment.
The Dutch Reach is a really good safety project:
A site to promote the safer far-hand Dutch Reach habit to get out of your car. It prevents dooring 'accidents' / crashes that injure & kill bicyclists. You too are safer because you naturally turn & see on-coming traffic before and as you exit.
www.dutchreach.org