equationgirl
Respect my existence or expect my resistance
You can have the noblest of intentions and still end up causing massive offence.I've been thinking about this some more. I still think that both are important but on reflection I think that you're right to place more emphasis upon how something is received than upon how it is intended.
However, I still think that intention is crucial in establishing the context. I would disagree with anybody who argues that intention is wholly irrelevant. I think that that mode of thought contains within it the seeds of a new fascism.